Paris answered Friday May 21 2004, 11:10 am: Well, it all depends on the situation and his intention. Is he calling you as a friend for a chat? After all you are his girlfriend's best friend. But if it makes you feel uncomfortable, you should let him know even if it's an innocent chat between two good friends. Also whenever he calls you tell your best friend about. Then you won't have to feel like you're going behind her back.
Or does he want more? Has he hinted or even actually said he wants to be with you instead of your best friend? If so, then seriously think about where your loyalty lies. You may even like him a lot yourself, but is it worth sacrificing your freindship with your best friend for? Remember best friends are hard to find. Some never even find one in their life time. Whatever the case, honesty really is the best policy. Do not do anything behind anyone's back even if it seems like a good idea. Lies will always catch up with you. [ Paris's advice column | Ask Paris A Question ]
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