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please tell me wut to do??
ok theres thsi boy at school and i really like him i dont know him that well but he comes over to my house to swim and stuff cuz he lives by me.. ok wut i was gonna ask is what is something like cool to talk about iwht him im not a nerd so i dont talk about books movies crap like that,, he is popular and im kinda popular and i think he thinks im hott and stuff and he isw always pancing me but i need a good conversation to talk to about with him like soemthing horn or soemthign cuz we are both horny and i just dont know that to say when he comes over or when i seee him at school PLASE HELP!!!
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relax ..... i used to be so nervous around my crush until i realised that he was also just a normal human being , not some king that we should all worship and stuff . i'm not saying that you shouldn't think about what to say beforehand , but just act cool and say whatever comet to mind but make sure you
1) do not insult him , tease yeah , but insult NO
2) do not say things like " tess is such a slut and a cheat too , do you know ... " This will make you sound like a gossip or a complainer
3) praise him indirectly
4) make him feel wanted , maybe be asking him a math question , but not ALL the time , or you will just seem stupid
4) another tatic is to play " hard to get " . from my experience , about 75% of guys love a challenge . the others will think you don't like them .
hope i'm helping =)
GOOD LUCK
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Can I just point out that you probably arent all that horny at 14.
And talking about movies and books does make you a nerd - it makes you an intelligent human being. Give it a try it might work.
Talk about what interests you - if he is right for you he will understand and join in the conversation or at least want to know more about what you are discussing.
If that doesnt work then ask him about himself and ask not overly personal questions like 'what are your hobbies?' 'do you play any sports?'
Questions like that so that he knows you are interested as well as you will get to know him a bit better.
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wellz be your slef. and be careful.
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