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Really long question about a nice boy. Thank You for help!
Hi, I'm a 14 year old girl.
Well there is this guy, 15. I have known him from 7th to 8th grade. When I first met him I liked him as a friend. Then my friend told me she liked him. After a while I liked him too. He was really cute and I couldn't take my eyes off him. From then on sometimes I talked to him (rarely, I was too shy)He gave me high fives and was really, really, nice to me. One day he put his arm around me and everyone in class saw (he is popular.) I think he knew I liked him (I smiled at him and everything, even his friends, who are girls, figured out I liked him.)It was great!
But then this year I didn't have him in any classes. At the begining I smiled at him a few times and made eye contact. He smiled too. But then on he totaly ignored me and didn't say anything to me. Then all my friends figured out I liked him and told him. They said he didn't care, but he was smiling. Finally I wrote him a corney little note (my guy-friend gave it to him) and it in I told him I liked him because he was nice to me. (He already had a really pretty girlfriend and already had sex with her. A lot of people at my school had.) He didn't write me back or say anything to me. But he looked at me all the time and when he did I looked away. Then a long time after that my stupid 7th grader friend told me something, I think he said that guy I liked, liked me. I asked him what he said but he wouldn't tell me. My friend thought she heard him say that too. He could be lying. I don't trust him.
I don't know why he won't talk or say anything to me. Is it my hair, my glasses, my clothes? I don't know. But everyone says I'm really pretty. I don't think I'm his type.
Please someone give me as much advice as you can! (I can't ask him because I'm too shy!) Thank you so much! Sorry it was so long!
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Do you really like him for what is inside,but if you really like him, and he askes you out he had it, you could get sucked in and have it too. You then might get hiv/aids and you can die from it. Forget about him , and move on , once he knows you don't like him he'll like you' and then you'll know what to do. I call it hard to get. BYE..............And don't worry it wasn't long........
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This guy seems like a jerk . Don't worry , I fell for the same type to . See, here's my story . I liked the huy and like grew to obsession and a hard knock crush . He got very popular the year we returned to school and I would get some looks and little eye contact . See, the thing is that he was playing with my feelings just to make himself feel important and cool . I think this guy is doing the same thing to you . Don't let him do this to you . Don't pay attention to this guy and start paying and focusing your attention to someone else . He'll then see that you are not going to wait for him . I'm not saying that he will come running to you with open arms and stuff like that , but you need to move on . You neeed to ask him do he likes you . In personal . If he responds like a jerk kick him to the curve . He doesn't deserve you . You're better than him .
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well maybe you should get him to meet you somewhere aloone and it looks to me like he likes you to but maybe you could get contacts if your worried about your glasses loved talking to you.
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If this guy has a girlfriend you should probably lay off becuase it could get you into a lot of trouble, like dont send him notes saying you really like him cause hes definetly going ot tell his girlfreind Just dont try so hard and start talking to him every once in a while, like ask him how hes been doing, and whats new just small stuff even if its just saying hi in the hall ways. And then maybe soon you guys will get closer, does he have instant messaging or anything like that ask him for his email address and you could talk to him through email.
i hope ive helped
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