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Guy Trouble


Question Posted Monday May 3 2004, 9:10 pm

Hiya!
I'm Annie (13, fem, MD). There's this guy and we used to be together like last year but I gave him the dump. I'm starting to feel that it was a mistake- I mean thinking about it, I can't remember why I dumped him in the first place. It was for my own good, and I know good from bad, don't smoke straight-A's only drink a little is my description. But this guy- he's so amazing. I totally can talk to him really closely and he has all these amazing aspirations for his life. He hangs with me at parties a little but he's a little safe- no kissing, no sex, though he is a druggie. I like the fact that he has very few friends- I admire people who don't require a possie to function. SO anyway, you probably are accustomed to giving guys advice but I really hope you can help me. I need to know if he likes me at all. How can I tell? And if so, what moves should I make, like how fast should I make them, aswell? And what can I do to keep him liking me? Please help!
*muah*

P.S.- plz email me if u have time, get my email by contacting my sn: duzzie19


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Cspinoza1 answered Tuesday May 4 2004, 9:51 am:
duzzie19,

There is one thing to remember when guy goes out with a girl, it means we like them, plain and simple and normally we aren't angry when we get dumped well not for to long, and some are more than thrilled to get back together. When we like a girl getting over liking her doesn't go away fast we do tend to hold on to what we did wrong. But some guys are harder like its once chance or its nothing, but from the information you have given me it doesnt seem that he has that problem. There are many ways to tell, does he still remain close, talk to you like when you were going out, does he focus his attention on you and no one else, or does he act the same way when you two used to date? If you want to make moves make them obvious to him that you still like him and that breaking up was a mstake, and it all depends on how fast you want to be back with him, but don't move to fast he might just be like what ever or she is insecure. Girl your asking what you need to do to keep him liking you? Every guy is extremely different when it comes to me, like I can't stand insecurity or a girl that can't be herself around everyone. But the truth for every guy is something attracted him to you, all you need to do is remain who you are, because girls who tend to change around everyone isn't really appealing.

I hope this helped.

Cspinoza1

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