I've been going out with this guy for over 2 weeks, and there's a huge problem: he hasn't called me, written me a note, or hung out with me once! I've called him before, and we talked for probably 5-10 minutes, and he hung up. I remind him to call me, and he always "forgets". I'm tired of him forgetting about me! My friends said that I should dump him, but I still really like him. I just don't trust him anymore. What should I do?
jbdreamer answered Monday May 3 2004, 11:18 am: It doesn't sound like you have been going out to me. He obviously doesn't care about you enough to take the inititive to call or even talk to you. I wouldn't even bother breaking up with him, because your not even dating. Just forget about him, since he seems to have forgoten about you. He's not worth your time. [ jbdreamer's advice column | Ask jbdreamer A Question ]
koshii answered Sunday May 2 2004, 10:39 pm: He doesn't want to be with you, and you'd do better to realize that and stop chasing him around. He's not forgetting about you because you were never on his mind in the first place. It always kills me how this can still be defined as "going out" when you don't even interact. Oh yeah, good times. [ koshii's advice column | Ask koshii A Question ]
Deanimal answered Sunday May 2 2004, 7:46 pm: Talk to him. Tell him that you feel neglected, and ask if he still likes you. If this proves unsuccessful, your friends are right, dump him. [ Deanimal's advice column | Ask Deanimal A Question ]
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