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homo-/hetero-sexuality I think I might be gay. What should I do? I'm almost 16 (guy) and I'm sick of being confused.
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Many thanks for your question and sympathise with your problem but although I have met Gays over the years in ordinary day to day life I have never have had in depth discussions about their lives or how they knew that it would be the life they would lead.
I am sorry that I cannot help you on this matter but if you put this question to all our columnists I am sure that you will receive the advice you are looking for.
All the very best of luck ]
You may not know what to call your sexual feelings. You don't have to rush to decide what to label yourself right now. Our sexual identites develop over time. Boys with truly gay feelings find that, over time, there attractions to boys and men get more and more clearly focused. If you think you might be gay, ask yourself:
**When I dream or fantasize sexually, is it about boys or girls?**
**Have I ever had a crush or been in love with a boy or man?**
**Do I feel different than other guys?**
**Are my feelings for boys or men true and clear?
If you cannot answer these questions now, don't worry. You will be more sure in time. You and only you know how to label yourself correctly.
Most importantly, remember: No matter what people say, you are normal. God created you, and you were made for this image.
Here's a toll free number you can call to talk about your feelings or perhaps, help you find out who you are. GLB Teen Hotline: 1-800-347-TEEN (Weekend nights only)
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