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BOYS!
Katie~
Ok here is the story see i like this boy, and he says he likes me, but he tells every girl what she wants to hear at the time! cuz today in class he was talking to this other girl and he said "I like you the most out of ALL the other girls!" So i talked to him ater saying that he told me he liked me and no one else. and he said he was jk-ing to her! and how do i no when other people ask him if he likes me, he isnt saying he was jk-ing to me?!
And then there is this other boy who asked me out and i said no...but i still like him but i just don't want a bf right now....and now whenever he sees me by another guy he gets all jealous and gets mad and says do you go with him? or he acusses me of likeing every single guy i talk to! I like this boy too but he is driving me away by doing this...what should i do for each boy and what should i say to them? HELP PLZ!!
LYLAS
~confuzed**
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Thanks for checking out my advice column, and asking a few questions:) I am always happy to help ya! See, the thing is with guys, they can lie and deceive you. Although they can be sweet, sometimes what they say to you may not all be true, only partially. If this first boy who said he likes you, and tells every girl what he wants to hear...I would suggest talking to him..as you did already for what he told the girl...Ask him what's going on between you two? If he feels uncomfortable answering, just tell him you are just wondering because lately it feels like he is flirting with every girl and you are wondering where you stand on his love life scale. If things work out between you two, great! If not, there are tons of fish in the sea:)
You know when other people ask him if he says he likes you...and he isnt saying he was jk-ing to you..well that's just a matter of trust. If you trust the boy you like enough, you will forsure know in your heart that he is not lying to you. If you are unsure, then ask him yourself...if he is telling you the truth. It at least can't hurt to ask him...
For the other boy....I think maybe just try to talk with him too as you do with other guys, trying to make the conversations as normal as possible. Somehow, I think this would help him from becoming so jealous that you talk with all these other guys, and not him. He should understand that you don't want a bf rite now....and hopefully he'll catch on that you want to just be friends for RITE NOW. Maybe....just maybe..later..something will come of the whole situation..let him know nothing more rite now. (gently though lol)....Every single guy you talk to definetly does not mean you like them. Guys can be your friends too....and you know in some cases...more! If you do talk to him and he feels more comfortable and happy this way....then I believe things will be better for the both of you. Does he know that you like him? If not, it's really up to you at this point whether to wait and tell him....which I say you do...because that way he won't be all like" Well, why won't you go out with me if you like me?" This way, you can give him some time(and you as well)...because you both need your own space for the moment.
I hope I have helped in some way or another!!
Feel free to come back and tell me what happens, or if you need advice on boys or anything else!!
LULAS!
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