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I'm questioning my sexual orientation a lot nowadays. I'm a girl, and I'm pretty sure I'm bisexual, but it's confusing for me because I'm attracted to males yet they make me EXTREMELY uncomfortable, maybe like how many straight men find it awkward to be around men in certain situations... and it's the opposite for girls; I don't find them attractive AS OFTEN but I don't think it's awkward to go out with girls. I'm really confused about this...
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Hey,
Well, firstly, how old are you? It's perfectly normal for younger people to go through stages of questioning their sexuallity; it's a part of growing up and discovering who you are, so don't feel that you're alone.
Secondly, it does sound like you're very confused. Have you ever been in a relationship with a boy or a girl? What kinds of situations are you awkward around men? In my experience, men have often been less awkward to be around, and many of my best friends are males. Girls tend to be more bitchy toward each other (this is during the teen years), and therefore I find that they're less enjoyable to be around.
It sounds to me like you're finding your feet. Please do not be worried by any of this; whatever your sexual orientation is, it's nothing to be ashamed of, and anyone who tells you different is stupid and ignorant. If you're pretty sure you're bisexual, then perhaps you should embrace the idea and see what happens. Good luck :)
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