If I once had some close friends, but something happened and we all drifted apart, what's a good way to decrease the distance again? I don't really know what happened. I still talk to some of them, but the others avoid me as though I was a plague or something of that sort.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? sp4rklingr4in answered Monday March 15 2004, 1:07 am: If you have drifted apart from some of your friends, then you should try to talk to them more often. Join in their conversations, go places with them, spend time with them after shcool hours, etc. Sometimes things like this happen and we can't do anything about it. If you really want to keep your friends then just try to talk to them more often and talk to them about how you feel about your relationships. IF some are avoiding you, it may not be intentional. They might actually be wanting you to talk to them and may be thinking the exact same thing as you. Don't think poorly of your friends who are "ignoring" you. They most likely didn't know how you felt and if you tell them or try to talk to them, they should comfort you with opened arms.
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