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love life


Question Posted Sunday March 14 2004, 10:22 pm

hello siren
you say you can analyze things well here it goes analyze this guy one i live with he is good to me but no sex, guy two i think of often but dont stand much of a chance with him as far as anything goes guy three appeared on the scene today he asked me out he seems nice and giving and caring guy one is caring too i want to have guy one and three i want to date both of them im older than 21 so all is legal so are they but if guy 2 asked i would jump him in a new york minute but in the mean time i think i am going to date guy 3 behind guy one;s back see anythng wrong as long as no one gets hurt


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Siren_Cytherea answered Sunday March 14 2004, 10:32 pm:
Okay, you can't date both guys. That qualifies as cheating, which isn't nice to anyone. I see everything wrong with this. It appears that you have some decisions you need to make.
Sex is not everything in a relationship. Have you spoken to guy one about your feelings, and maybe asked him about the lack of sex, if it bothers you so much?
I don't care if you think no one will get hurt, because everyone could. If guy one finds out about guy three, he could get pissed and dump you. If they find out about each other, you could be left with no one, and that would suck, wouldn't it?
Why risk hurting everyone just to get sex? How long have you been with guy one? It could be a time issue, but I am not psychic, as much as I'd like to be, so I can't tell you.
This could also be a communication thing. Talk to guy one before you go out with guy three, get some info, and come back to me with what you have if you still don't know what to do. Good luck!
-Siren

Also, you may have misinterpreted what I said, which was that I analyze dreams. I do this advice stuff, obviously, but I don't consider that analyzation. =)

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