my boyfriend and i have fucked only once in three yrs of going out and we live together he dont cheat on me he is 51 well my question is the other day we were fooling around and he wanted to fuck but lost his errection does this mean he really dont wanna have sexual intercourse with me what am i to do i could fuck all the time for real someone please help please be honest i want to know
alpha answered Saturday March 13 2004, 8:42 am: It doesn't necessarily mean that he didn't want to have sex with you. My guess (and it's only a guess) is that he has erectile dysfunction and has a lot of trouble getting or sustaining an erection; he probably hoped he could that last time, but (maybe because he was really nervous) it didn't work.
He's probably incredibly embarrassed about it, anyway. You should talk to him about it, but be as tactful and loving as you possibly can. He may be humiliated because he thinks it's some kind of reflection on his manhood, but it's actually a very common problem among older men. And there are a bunch of different treatments that a doctor can tell him about. Here's a good website, if you want more info to start with: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) [ alpha's advice column | Ask alpha A Question ]
PepeLePew answered Saturday March 13 2004, 12:36 am: I thought old people were suppose to be tired by then...but then again, maybe not? It might not mean that he lost interest in you, he is just tired.
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