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My friend and I have been "friends" for about 4 years now but ever since the beginning, I've wanted to become more than just friends. Last summer I told him that I did like him in that way and I wished that we could become more than just friends and see what happens but he said that he didn't know me well enough. I've been trying to go everywhere I can with him and see him as often as possible because I DO want to get to know him better... last weekend (for the first time) he started hitting on me which kinda made me happy... ^^;; but after the weekend was over, he called me and said to forget the whole thing because he was just fooling around. I was totally crushed because he KNEW that i liked him... I don't know what to do any more. Should I move on? Four years is a pretty long time and we're both going to college in 2 years... is it too late to try and start a relationship?
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Woah, i didn't noe that much. Well, where to start. First off, i'm sry that he crushed u like that, noone should be messed around like that with their emotions. Personally, i would move on. 4 years is a long time to spend on just one person, especially at such a young age. Everyone deserves better than to try and be wit someone, then be fooled into thinkin that they r, only to be pushed away again. There are much better guys out there, and there r sure to be ones that will care for u better than that one. Amazing how u r able to coordinate ur colleges, but i would recommend to at least try and be friends with him Another friend never hurt anyone, but another x-boyfriend hurts both involved.
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Honey, it doesn't sound like this guy likes you in "that" sense, or he's not ready for any sort of relationship. If I were you I'd move on; it'll be hard at first because 4 years is a long time, but you deserve someone who's gonna give you as much love as you have to give them. Good luck x
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It's never too late to start a relationship, ever. If you're so comitted make a long distance relationship during college. Never give up so easily. Also, stuff like this happens all the time. You might not really like him as much as you think, you may just THINK you like him. But then again, I don't know exactly how you feel or what you're thinking blah blah blah.
If he's hitting on you, he probably likes you and doesn't know/want to admit it. I hit on my current girlfriend back when we were just friends (she wanted to be more) and then denied I meant anything. Later I realized I really cared for her.
So if you truly like him, it's not too late, long distance relationships DO work, and he likely likes you. Just keep trying (without being pushy, weird, looking desperate, etc.).
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