Ever since 4th grade(I'm in 6th) I've been best friends with Sam. We constantly had sleep overs and all that girl stuff. But as soon as we got to sixth grade, she suddenly left Kallie and I behind(Kallie is another best friend of mine). Its not that I don't want her to have friends. It is that I want her to notice us again. Her new friend Karen is really rude, she prank calls my house all the time. I just don't know what to do about it. I miss her terribly, change is not my favorite thing in the world and this is a huge change for me.
Sounds like you still really want to keep this realationship going...and I don't blame you. Friendship is easy to start and hard to stop. I think the best thing to do is simply talk to Sam. Show and tell her how much you really want to be her friend. Talk to her and tell her how you feel you are losing connection and you are afraid that your friendship will end if you don't so something about it. Also mention that her friend Karen is less than friendly to you. As for the prank calls tell Karen to stop calling our house and if she doesn't then have your parents call hers. If you feel a little strange doing this yourself confront Sam with Kallie with you to give you more confidence. Hope everything works out and feel free to ask me a question anytime! [ BewareOfCat2's advice column | Ask BewareOfCat2 A Question ]
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