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i want a guy to go out with me


Question Posted Friday March 5 2004, 7:19 pm

Theres this guy that I like.. I am not sure if he has a girlfriend... but... I am very embarassed to ask him to be my boyfriend because i am short and he is tall... we are both 13 years old... but he has changed alot since he went to San Bernardino.. before he went to San Bernardino he was not popular..but when he went San Bernardino he changed alot and now that he came back he is very different...so now he is kind of popular and am not really popular.. he stares at me alot like if he likes me but this other guy used too stare at me alot too and I thought he liked me but I found out that he didn't so i am not sure if ths kid i like , likes me... he sits next to me at the computer lab. my question is "how can i get him to like me and be my boyfriend?"

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FernGully answered Friday March 5 2004, 8:33 pm:
If you catch him staring at you then you should look back and smile nicely, not a huge smile (you dont want to scare him) and not too small a smile (you dont want him to think hes bothering you by smiling at you) but a just medium smile. Not too big and not too small, that way he knows that its not bothering you if he looks at you.

The problem with 13 year old boys is that they are relationship-challenged (extremely) and they usually dont understand or know what to do when they like a girl. So if you are feeling really courageous you can show him you like him by flirting a bit (smile at him, joke with him, be really casual and not afraid and be yourself).
If you discover that he flirts back with you and can joke with you then he probably has a bit of a crush on you! If he doesnt return the flirtation then maybe he simply isnt interested, in which case its okay because who needs guys anyways. You'll be perfectly fine with or without him so just find out how he feels and let him know you are interested in him and then see what happens.

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