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im to mature in relationships!
im always expecting the guy to stay with me for a long time. i want a long time relationship...im only 13. im homeschooled so i cant date a bunch of guys. theres hardly anyone my age around my house and if there is they are all drug and/or sex addicts! i hate this! i need to be more...kidish. i flirt alot but it doesnt seem to help. what should i do?
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Thirteen year old boys barely know whether girls are yucky or sexy at that age. If you do find one that sticks around, I guarantee it will take sex to keep him that way, and thirteen is no age to be scrumping. Put your desires on hold for a while until the male population ripens. You will find someone eventually if you're a tolerable person. Flirting will only attract perverts which could be dangerous. I hate to say it, because I would have hated to hear it at thirteen, but relationships are going to suck badly for about three years.
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You should stop worrying about having a long-term relationship, that's what! You're thirteen. Enjoy being thirteen! Even high school relationships are for the most part meaningless. Wait until college, when you'll be around at least a few guys who are growing up, you know? It's good that you want a real relationship and not just casual dating, and that you have standards... but, really! Enjoy being thirteen.
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Answer: don't be kiddish. It is more logical to wait until you meet someone who doesn't suck so you can build a long lasting relationship. Do you really want to date these drug and/or sex addicts? I'm very near asking you where they live so I can kick their ***es. It will be much more rewarding to aim for a long lasting relationship. It is unfortunate that so few your age can be mature, but I feel the same way. I refused to date many girls because I knew the relationship wouldn't last very long. It's one thing to hate the guys aorund you being total morons, it is another to hate being a logical person. Trust me on this one, from experience I can tell you staying mature will greatly benefit you, and trying to be 'kidish' will hurt you. And I don't like that term either. 'Kidish' is fine, but it doesn't mean what you'd have it mean. I.E., 'kidish' reffers to a child's point of view or mentality, yet a child would never have a realtionship- I'm going to trim this a little bit for space. 'Kidish' means actually acting as a child would. I play with Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles and my X-Files The Movie mint-condition action figures. 'Kidish', no? Yet not immature. Remember that.
...Oh and, all the other stuff I said. Keep that in mind too... I guess.
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Wow, yes you are a little young to be looking for a life long partner. If I were you I wouldn't bother dating at all untill you are older. If you feel you need a lasting comitment from a guy then you probably need to wait untill males have the same amount of maturity.
And it not like its absolutly nessisary to start dating so young. Thats just a stupid thing that scocity is trying to make you do.
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