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real confused!!
hi, it's me again who wrote before, "wat do u think" well bascially i have this male friend in college and his quite older then me, the thing is we have a good times by ourself or in groups but the thing is sometimes i'm confused in what things he say's to me and why? he say's thing's like it's just like being married to you? i mean wat was tht all about?? and he also said this in a joke way before that he said "you need relationship counselling i think" as in a jokey way though, then i replied and said; well look who's talikng when you are then one had lots of breakdowns in your past relationship and being dumped ny your ex-girlgriends then he say's; i actually dumped them when only he was trying to deny himself but when i said that he had a grin on his face and went red.
As in the other hand i'm single and i havn't been out with any one for a long time even though i had lots of guy's askin me out in college and out of college but thats not the point i didnt say this to him though because he was saying to me in a joke way and saying are you trying to play hard to get? wat was he on about there! not only that he say's that he has a great sociable time with me when were alone and has called me "you'r such an sex symbol" and no wonder why older guys prefer you more is because you are so attractive and nice/very mature and loving caring person etc...
He also said the other day i can imagine already bumping into you in 8yrs time having lunch with you while you tell me everything about your life.
i mean he does talk to me alot and has a happy smile when i say something to him or make him laugh alot and sometimes he goes red, i'm just confused when he says things tome and why does he say it and what does he mean about it's like being married to you. Recently he has been in a funny mood blanking me then talking to me and sayin is everything ok and how r u etc.. but then agian he makes me be the last perosn to be looked at while he takes his time talking to other girls but i don't mind it's just that why doe she keep me the last one to be listned to is it because he is trying to get my attention or what? and when he talks he looks deep down m eye even thogh my hair is in the way it's like he is trying to search them and when he talks to the other girls he always try to glance at me every now and then if i'm looikn or not or wat am i doing? also he does tease me alot and jokes with me alot and winks at me when ever he see's me and say's frount of people it's like being married to you, and he does say hi all the time or if i don't reply he will say it continously and tells me at least you can smile back at me or say hello! and not only that he said i remind him soo much of his ex-girlfriend as he was laughing but he used to say nice thing about her, even though it's his x and he said i also remind him of somebody else with a happy face but why does he mention these peculiar things to me or says it to me then somebody else and he always takes me as a game or a joke and somtimes not taking me seriously or listening to me apart from mirroing me with his face expression or when i say something he is trying to make laugh and always pull his eye-brow up and down but why it's really annoying and embrassing, but we are only gd frineds though we only known each other for 6/7 months. SO PLEASE HELP ME OUT I'M REAL CONFUSED LIKE HOW THIS PERSON IS ACTING AND SAYING THESE THINGS HELP ME UNDERSTAND WHY OR WHAT IS THIS PERSON TRYING TO SAY? ansd i never know what he means it's like being married to you he was realy laughing and having a grin on his face when he said that. well srry about this long essay and thanx ever soo much 4 ur reply tke care! bye sweet facex
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The truth? I think he likes you...unless he's just goofy like that ALL the time.
But then again, this kid named Keshawnt in my school goes and says hes married to all the girls. He even says it to my art teacher. And he jokes around saying things like "I'm glad we got a divorce." "Or we need to work this out". It's really funny but the whole time he's kidding...so that's what this guy can be doing to you.
Watch him closely...do you like him? Does he send you hints? If he's getting red it seems like he's got "a thing" for you...but then again I get red and blush all the time, even when I don't like the person.
See, I'm stumped...because this sort of situation is a confusing one. But personally, I think he is trying to send you hints BIG TIME...but don't be too sure...yet.
If he's saying things like "you're such a sex symbol" and "no wonder why older guys prefer you more is because you are so attractive and nice/very mature and loving caring person" etc...that sounds like a hint to me...
Just have fun with him a little. Go along with what he says and have fun, and then maybe soon you'll find out what's going on.
For example: if he goes and says something about you two being married, go along with it for a few days and then one day just casually ask "Why do we do this anyway?" and laugh. This could let you know the truth on why he does these things...and the laugh could lighten the mood.
He seems like a very kind guy...(saying "hi" to you, asking how you are, etc.)
He may seem embarassing...but people have totally different ways of expressing themselves with other people. Like you said, you two are pretty good friends...so just have fun with him as a friend and casually drop things into the conversation. If you like him, flirt with him a little...but not TOO MUCH. Just keep it on a low level to where you're still friends...not "almost a couple"
I'm sorry if this isn't making ANY sense at all.
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~Flirt a little like he does with you
~Talk to him more
~Go along with things he says and jokes about for a little while
~Every once in a while casually drop things into the conversation.
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I REALLY hope this helped. Ask me another question if you want to...and I'll try to help more. Also, keep me updated...I'd like to know how it goes. You can ask me another question on advicenators, email, or instant message me.
~GL~
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