precaution to be taken after having unprotected sex for avoi
Question Posted Sunday February 22 2004, 4:58 am
Dear Doctor,
I am 21yrs old male having a girl friend who is 20 yrs old.
We generally have outer sex ( avoid internal ejacultion )but indulge in intercourse...
taking care that only the ejaculation is not done inside.
But, last night, 22feb 2004 ( at 6am ) we were physically involved.
During the act of the intercourse.... i was trying to hold myself
longer as I wanted my girl friend to get her orgasm....but during this
process... i soon discovered the ....i had ejaculated inside...
before even i released..
Please help us out... as we need to avoid pregnancy.. Please guide ua as what has to be done
now...
About our facts... my girl friend has never used any kind of pills for birth control.
Also...I always avoided wearing a condom...
This situation .. is getting us worried.... and from here after shall definately use
precautions... ( use condoms )
Facts about us:
My girl friend:
Name- sandra
Age- 20 yrs
Last time got her periods on date - 6th Feb...2004 ( but not to sure )
regualar Cycle ... gets periods for three days..
PLease help us as what has to be done to avoid pregnancy. Thankyou !
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? AbbyMichelle answered Sunday February 22 2004, 10:13 pm: Well, to begin with, I am not a doctor. I am hoping to be one though. You need to face the fact that Sandra may be pregnant. If she is, don't wig out. You have multiple options. You could give the baby up for adoption, you could have the baby and raise it, or you could have an abortion (I am anit-abortion so I do not recomend this). Sandra should have started taking a pill when she first started her sexual activities. I am going to have to yell at you a bit too. What is with the "I have never used a condom before" stuph? YOU should have known better. I suggest you start wearing one even if Sandra does get on the pills. Neither of them are totally 100% going to work. Nope, 99.9% of the time they don't work. Wearing a condom and having her on pills or some form of birth control, will make it virtually impossible for her to become pregnant.
*If you have sex, use protection...DUH!*
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