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There is this girl I like. But I'm a girl too. And I know that this guy likes me a lot. I'm not sure if the girl likes me or what, and I really don't want to hurt the guy. I'm torn between them, I guess. What should I do? Go out with the guy, or just stare at the girl forever more.
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I have been in this very same situation more times than I can count! Do you like the guy? Feeling sorry for him is not a good enough reason to go out with him. You will realize all too soon that it is irritating to try to have a relationship with someone who likes you far more than you like them in return, and break up with him, therefor hurting him more than if you would have just rejected him initially. And you don't have to just stare at the girl forever more. Talk to her, get to be friends with her. If you find that she doesn't like you the same way you like her, you'll still have her as a friend, which might be even better.
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