Question Posted Wednesday February 18 2004, 4:33 pm
I know you said to just tell him outright, but still, I don't think I could figure a time to approach him.
Maybe I should just pretend not to be interested anymore? Or should I just 'play' back? Like being the aggressive one and see what he does? I'm naturally laid back in that sort of thing, so I don't know. Should I, or would that just be manipulative and unfair to him. Although he's done it to me...
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? OneMan answered Friday February 20 2004, 10:40 am: Well, that could be one alternative, although I'm not a big proponent of the "playing" scene. What people fail to realize is that even when you "play" back, you still have to deal with the feelings that you have. And should the time come when you finally have to let it all go, it's only that much harder. And what if you DO play and then find out later that he's NOT interested. Then....were you really playing? No, because he didn't care. Why don't you just ask him. If you can find time to "play" you can find time to ask him. [ OneMan's advice column | Ask OneMan A Question ]
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