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Pumpkin and Baby
ok i like these 2 guys pumpkin and baby and pumpkin is my friend and baby is sorta my friend type thing like we do stuff after school at school together but dont hang out out side of school you no the drill any way i sent both pumpkin and baby a carnation (its a school thing) for valentines day and the one i sent to pumpkin has my name on it but he just thinks its a friend thing but tis not lol and baby i sent one to him annonomisly and stuff i mean when i am not near pumpkin i just wanna be friends and stuff but when i am talking to him and are next to him i wanna lean in close and just be held by him but i dont wanna kiss him and with baby i like him all the time but when i am near him i dont want to hold him or anything but away from him i do honestly i need real help i am totally confused with my emotions
thank you so much
confession
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Dear confession,
Which one do you like best? It sounds to me like they both probably like you too. Just tell them straight up. Hey i like you do you feel the same way. I believe they both like you follow your heart. Knowone can make you feel bad about yourself but you remember that.
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Go with the flow. The way you feel about Pumpkin shows that you like Pumpkin a little more. You should still be friends with Baby but if you plan on doing anything intimate, go with Pumpkin.
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Whoa. Take a deep breath. Let it out.
It sounds to me like you're already starting to make a decision here. You make it seem that you like this Pumpkin guy better than you do Baby.
Well, you said you don't hang out with Baby outside of school. Possibly that's why the attraction isn't so strong? You haven't really had any free time with him, just forced proximity to eachother that you learned to live with and enjoy (school). Try going out somewhere with him, not necessarily a date, just something outside the school scene.
As for Pumpkin, if you really have those feelings, TELL HIM. Find a way to get him alone, call him on the phone, whatever, but loose ends never helped anybody. If he doesn't like you back, it's gonna be a little weird at first maybe, but I guarantee you either way you'll be a lot less confused, because you took action about your confusion. I would say don't rehearse it too much, don't try to find some perfect moment, make yourself a good moment and let it come from what you're thinking and feeling.
This is an emotional thing, but don't let your emotions run it, you have to think about yourself and these other people, and what you can do. The answer was obvious, I think, you just wanted an objective person to say it so it didn't sound as bad as it did in your head. ;)
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