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well recently two of my friends, to be blunt hate eachother now. i met them about the same time and they where really good friends untill somthing, which i honsetly this was stupid, came up. im still really good friend with them both but its starting to bother me about how sometime one will say something about the othere or if im with them in a group (it rarely happens) how noone will say anything and it becomes no fun to see them anymore.maily what im asking for is help on how to get them to not talk behind the ohers back and well so they can see eachother and atlest act a little happy, i dont care nmore if they become friends but it would be nice if they atlest somewhat talked seeing that they're going to the same sckool next year.
-missy
PS.this actuly has nothing to do with you and what happend to your friend,so please dont accuse me of trying to get you to back together(this is proably something smaller then what happen between you guys i wouldnt really know). ive knows these 2 for a wial and i just wanna be abel to have a conversation with both in the room not graring at eachother.
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Okay.. so I'm gonna reanswer this question since I obviously made a mistake by jumping to conclusions on who these "two friends" were. (Sorry about that, I'm just bitchy about the topic)
Anyway, I don't think you can do much if you don't find out why the two hate eachother. Ask each one personally the *exact* reason why they hate eachother. If it's something the other one did or something, then have both of them explain to eachother the reason for doing what they did. There's nothing much you can do when two other people hate eachother, except just ask why they hate eachother and try to figure out a compromise between the two, since you can't control their feelings or lives.
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