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Okay, where to start, where to start. I'm a 15 year old lesbian, and a couple of months ago, I think I had a crush on one of my older friends that was 18. She's a lesbian too. Well.. I told her that I liked her, and it was so hard. I was actually expecting something to happen between us, but it didn't. So I tell her, and she says that the age gap is too great and she's already got someone. It made me really upset, but I tried to forget about her, and I did for a while. But now (about 3 months later) I think I like her again... What should I do? I don't think I want to tell her again because I'm afraid of rejection, and it seems like last time I told her, our friendship kind of lessened, and I really don't want that to happen again. Please help me...
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This might be hard, but maybe she just doesn't like you the same way you like her. She might just want to be friends with you, and possibly she could be scared of what might happen to your friendship if something does go on between the two. But.. if you really think there is something possible, give it another shot! After all, its been 3 months now like you said. She might have developed feelings for you over the past few months. Don't be afraid of rejection, that's the #1 thing about love that holds people back. If you live thinking you'll be rejected, then that's all that will ever happen to you because you'll be to scared to try anything. Love is a big risk, and it's a risk you need to take if you want to be happy. Plus love isn't always happy, maybe she just isnt "the one" for you, there's about 6.5 billion people in this world, 32.5 million of those are lesbians also.. so there's someone out there waiting for you.. so if things don't go the way you want, just wait.. you'll find someone! But for now, just take that risk, because what is love besides trusting someone with the power to hurt you?
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