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i don't meant to insult those who are at a young age and say they have found love, but i realize that you have not felt true love until you meet the one meant for you. when my friend speaks of how much he is "in love", it just kinda pains me because he has no idea. i don't want to force him to believe he is only feeling a premature feeling of love and not the real thing... but i also won't be able to stand him getting hurt. what should i do to soothe my concience without telling him all of my opinions and putting out friendship at risk?
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First of all, I know exactly what you're going through. The same thing happened with one of my friends and she got hurt badly (emotionally). What I suggest is to talk to your friend and tell him how hurt he could get from this relationship. But the ultimate decision lies within him, he is the one who decides on what to do. But if you talk to him, at least you can soothe your emotions. Just let him know what may happen and how worried you are about him, and surely he'll understand the risks.
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Be blunt. He'll probably try to ignore you, but it'll stick in the back of his head and be there when that take on things may be useful.
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