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Desperate? Or lonely?


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 11:09 pm

For the past few monthes i have gone through a lot. Family problems, friend problems, school problems...etc etc etc. All i have really wanted is someone to hold me and be there for me (to put it plainly i really want a bf) Just so he can be there for me to tell me its ok. Friends are great to have and all but i want someone to hold me when i need them. My problem is i can't seem to get guys to like me. My friends say i am really pretty and i have everything it takes to get a guy. But for some reason i can't get a guy. Could someone please tell me what to do? :-/

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HELP ME OUT!!


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 11:05 pm

Ok, theres this guy who is my friend and who has been hanging around me but like in a wierd way. He gives me "happy embarassed" looks and likes to sit by me at lunch. My friend told me she thought he liked me, but he denied it. Do you there is any possible way that he really does like me. I really need to figure this out. Please help.

PS. He also flirts with me alot alot alot!!!!

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my prob


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 11:01 pm

i have this problem....whenever 1 of my friends likes a guy, i start to like him too but i never get him! how can i stop this?

13/f

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¤Love¤


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 10:47 pm

How do you know when your in love?

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I Like You...?


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 10:24 pm

hey, i need some advice! someone help me out here. I really like this guy...but I don't know how to tell him. I'm worried that he doesnt like me, what do i do to make it get through to him that i like him without making it straight forward and making a fool of myself?

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Sorry in advance for this being long.


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 10:22 pm

Ok theres a guy in school who I like, His name is Jake. Hes a grade younger than me. Well Jake rides my bus, everyone thinks he likes me, and I get hugs and he tells me he loves me. But when hes around his friends (most are mine as well) he doesn't act the same. And there are some days where he doesn't even talk to me in the hall. My question is : is it possible that sometimes he is in a bad mood, or are most guys like this? or does he just not like me.

by the way 14/f .... hes 14 as well but still in a grade below.

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Is he trying to ask me out??


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 10:12 pm

ok, there's this guy that I like...and he (for sure) likes me...and it seems like he is dropping hints on asking me out...like (this is kinda long) he asked me how I acted with the guys at my school (he's in 9th i'm in 8th)I don't rub up all over them and that they grab my butt etc...and then the other night on the fone (he calls me normally on a daily basis) he suddenly forgot wut he was going to say and he was like "it could have been about me and u..."and then another time he was like ' know for sure now that stuff is going to happen between us and I was like stuff??? sooo...does this mean he wants to ask me out...or...wut???

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Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 10:09 pm

there's this boy in school that i have a crush on
but he's popular and i don't think he would like me i don't know what to do i can't stop thinking about him

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Engaged and in the army...


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 9:51 pm

I joined the army to make a life for my then girlfriend, now fiance. She has always resented the fact that I made the decision to enlist and leave home. It's now been almost a year and I have only seen her a few times since leaving. I miss her and I think it could have been a mistake joining even though it has created a way for us to get married. I am not happy without her and the long distance is wearing on me. How do i make myself happy without her?

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he's way hard to read


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 9:47 pm

hey okay so i have a question. okay so i met this guy a couple of weeks ago. i was a bit drunk, he was a little drunk, and we ended up hooking up- only made out. i said to him at the time, okay so is this going to be a random hook up or are you actually going to call me and he said no im going to call you i really am. so skip some a week later he calls me and says he do you want to hang out. of course i did but i couldnt. so yah. so we have been talking and stuff but im worried he is just looking for a hook up.. and that isnt wat im looking for. we are hanging out next weekend and just watching scary movies and stuff- should i just wait till then to figure it out...? he is just so hard to read i cant tell!

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my first love... or his best friend


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 9:34 pm

well i was going out with this guy for 7 or 8 months and we really loved each other but he started high school and he cheated on me over the summer and a week ago i went to the mall with his best friend and we went to the movies and started holding hands and his friend said he loves me already and i like his friend.. so i broke up with my boyfriend and his friend asked me out and now my boyfriend (ex) is soo upset and he cries over me and he doesn't know that me and his friend are going out.... should i stick with my first love or his friend?

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bf trouble


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 9:17 pm

Im not 2 sure how 2 let mi bf down. I wrote him a note sayin either he sho more luv 2 me or break up wit me. I didnt talk 2 him 4 tha rest of tha day. Tha next day i felt horrible so i wrote him a note sayin that i was wayy 2 harsh and i still wanna go out wit him. and that note was on friday. Now its saturday and i want 2 break up wit him 4 good but idk how 2 tell him. he would much better b a guy friend than a boyfriend u kno?!? plz gimme sum help I RATE VURY HIGH!!!
thx,
evan

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16/f


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 9:00 pm

I am in love with this guy i used to be dating. him and my best friend are really tight. sumtimes i think too tight. I got dumped for her, but they never went out again. when they first were together Marie cheated on Logan. but Marie (my friend) and Logan (my X) are still very tight. I love marie to death but all she does is talk about Logan. she got dumped 3 weeks ago by her boyfriend she was with for 9 months. i know she loves him and only loves logan as a friend. but sumtimez i cant help but be jealous. Im not positive if Logan still like marie. But when i think of how hurt i was when i got dumped i cant help but blame marie too!! i feel like a bad friend that and i really want Logan back... please help me!!


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my bf


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 8:51 pm

hey,

okay like my new boyfriend is so osm , but every one at school thinks hes gay but i know hes not


what should i do!!!

i rate

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still go for it?


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 8:12 pm

well, i REALLY like this guy. and the other day without tellin me my best friend was talkin to him and asked him how he felt about me. well, she told me that he thought of me as just a friend. i was really upset, and my cousin is tellin me to just get over him and find another guy. but the thing is, i dont want to like another guy. hey, i may never get a chance with this guy, but its still ok to have a crush on him, right? or is my cousin right and i need to find another dude, perferably one i stand a chance with? thanks guys..yall rock.

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*crushin majorly*


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 8:09 pm

ok, there is this guy. hes in 9th grade. hes so cute and doesnt have a bf. one of my best friends that knows him bout as well as i do says that he likes me. i still dont think so. ive been crushin on him for almost a year. i started noticing that he looks at me a lot. what do i do?

signed
*deeply troubled*

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Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 7:59 pm

i met this guy the otehr nioght and we totally clicked. we're really into each other. only one problem i look older than i am so he though i was 19 and he looks younger than he is so i thought he was 18. turns out i'm 15 and hes 23. hes really cute and nice and funny and i know people are thinking omg hes a prev but the thing is i never fall for anyone. i havent met a erson in ages whose even made me look twice but i keep having all these dreams about him and i get butterflies everytime i think of him. it feels like this is the one time i could be happy and i feel like the only thing about me thats acutially 15 is my age the rest of me is older. what do i do?

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Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 7:20 pm

me and my boyfriend have our 1 year aniversary coming up, and we decided that we would make tapes for each other with all different sorts of love songs. I'll rate you a five for any attempt!!
And any type of music..we listen to all types. thanks guys. ur the bestestestestestest.

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my boy friend


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 7:14 pm

i really really think my man is cheating,he always talk ta otha gurls on tha fone but im ok wit that but he talks ta them more than he talks ta me he most likly doesn't answer the phone when i call or he just will put me on a long hold when those otha gurls call him. im very confused right now but can u really giv me some great advice pleaze and i rate very high so just pleaze i need very specific details on how wuld u kno ure boy friend is cheatn' on u.

signed worried gurl friend

p.s.im a 14 year old female.

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im not ready to let go


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 5:20 pm

alright well theres this boy named ted..I've been going out with him sence august 6th and like in october he broke up with me and I brok eup with him altogether around 3 or 4 times and all those times we'ver gotten back together..but wednesday he broke up with me because he liked two other people..alina and tara..well alina has a boyfriend and her boyfriend is teds best friend..so he wouldn't get her.. tara is one of my best friends so she wont go out with him because she thinks hes a horrible boyfriend from what he did to me..and becasue she doesn't like him like that and also because hes the kind of boy that likes to be really close with there girlfriends and like make-out and stuff like that and she doesn't like that..so neither alina or...

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