I had a mini conversation with a spirit/goddess last night...
Question Posted Monday February 23 2015, 3:41 pm
So, I FULLY awoke to a woman's playfully evil laugh. In my head, I asked, "What the hell was that?!" And she said, "Why? Is it wrong?" And then I felt soft, delicate hands on my side, and you know when you were six years old and you had a friend try to playfully push you off the bed? That's what she did. Then she joked about shoelaces or something, but I can't remember.
Please don't tell me I was dreaming, because I know myself. I know when I'm fully awake.
How can I possibly communicate with her like that again? Please help! I felt so safe and loved with her. <3
Grandfather answered Tuesday February 24 2015, 12:23 pm: There's the myth of the succubus, which is a female demon who visits men in their sleep and seduces them, stealing their sperm and draining their life force. By doing so, they cause an addiction to the succubus' insidious charms, they steal the man’s soul and debilitate him to the point of death.
I'm not saying that this is definitely the cause but it was the first thing that came to mind as I read your question and I think it's appropriate to warn you of the possibility. [ Grandfather's advice column | Ask Grandfather A Question ]
Dragonflymagic answered Tuesday February 24 2015, 12:23 pm: I happen to believe that disembodied souls, those not ready to move on into the spiritual plane to live with their creator, can exist on our earthly plane. These spirits, are what we call ghosts.
As a rule, any harmless spirit form which can include souls of ancestors who come to visit, your guardian angels, spirit guides,
these do not engage in pranks, and playing games, anything that hints at evil, they do not tell you what to do, they do not interfere or intrude in your life, and any conversation always has purpose, no friendly chats for entertainment sake. Remember, we are talking spirits here, no longer in mortal bodies or never were mortal to begin with. So they have no need to play silly pranks, talk nonsense, tease, and interrupt your sleep, etc....
Any spirit form entity that approaches you is there only for very specific reasons dear, one, to protect your mortal form if it's not time for your soul to leave your body/die, or to gently make suggestions, give advice but leave choices up to you. It's about anything that pertains to your own personal spiritual growth while here on earth which is your classroom.
So, if I were you, I would not purposely try to bring back this spirit. It does not sound like one that you can trust to be on the level.
As mentioned, it could have been a realistic dream, but then, as you said, I also know when I am dreaming or awake and I have always been awake/daytime when I have spoken with Jesus, the Goddess who I see as the Holy Spirit, and my spirit guides. Like you, I see nothing but the conversation occurs in my mind. So I can personally vouch it's possible but too many people not knowing better, get involved with spirits of a darker nature, and they are very good at presenting themselves as harmless and don't need to sound evil or look scary.
Not very many people have their 'senses' awoken. I have clairevoyance and clairaudiance which mean able to see thing and hear thing not restricted to just the earthly plain. Instead of seeing and hearing with my real eyes and ears, I see with my mind, it's 'all in my head' LOL, I hear the thoughts and see the scenes in my mind. Driving home one day for example, Jesus speaks in my head interrupting me singing along on a song, and says, when you get home, tell your husband not to quit school. Well there had been no such talk about that, for all I knew, he liked it so I didnt want to say anything. So first I asked, "Hows school going." Hubby said, "I can't hack it, I think I'm going to just quit school." I then told him what I heard and he kept going to school and graduated. I have many examples where Jesus and Goddess worked with me to teach me that I indeed could hear from them. Just ask and I'll share. But you need to write to me from my column next, or I can't answer you.
If this spiritual encounter continues without you seeking it, I would go looking for professionals who can help. A good place to get leads is to look for the metaphysical bookstores in your area, these might be called Pagan or Wiccan too but often they will have sign ups for one on one help/meetups or hold classes where a gifted person is in attendance, they are most likely to have knowledge of such people who are local and can refer a name or two.
I have an adopted sister who does this kind of work, helping souls cross over, etc... in essense, working with ghosts. There are quacks just looking for money and there are those who actually have the gift to deal with spirits and ability to determine if harmless or malevolent. The person I mentioned always comments on my angels whom she can see hovering somewhere behind me. I wish you the best. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
rainhorse68 answered Tuesday February 24 2015, 7:05 am: Hi there. I hate saying something you've explicitly asked me NOT to say but part of a dream can certainly contain the strong conviction that you are not asleep and it is thus, not a dream. In fact, it's a constituent part of any dream. The terrors we experience in a nightmare would not terrify us at all if all the time the disturbing events were going on we held the knowledge that it was 'not real' and it was simply a bad dream. We realise this only when we waken. We're so reieved too, eh? "Phew...thank god that was a dream" . I feel sure yours was a dream. A gentle and lovely dream. You ease out of it gently too. You've no desire to 'let it go'. Possibly your surroundings in the dream were perfectly true to your real bedroom? Could well be. A dreamscape does not have to be freaky and random. It's a lovely and tranquil sounding dream, you must be pretty much 'at one with the world' as they say to have conjured it up in your subconscious mind I reckon? No conflicts or tension in your mind. Which is great news for you. Hope you have plenty more 'sweet dreams'.
That sweet, gentle and benevolent goddess? You ARE in touch with her. She's part of YOU. Now how special is THAT?? XX [ rainhorse68's advice column | Ask rainhorse68 A Question ]
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