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Why do i always get bullied is karma real ?


Question Posted Monday October 21 2013, 1:07 pm

Why do i always get bullied is karma real ?
its gets really hurtful after a amount of times people have said it i have been getting this for the past 5 years of my life non stop everyday people commenting on the way i look i had really bad ance and scars on my face well there nearly gone now but they also were teasing me because i find it hard keeping up with everyone in class it really hurts iv said told a teacher what happened but they didnt do anything at all they just left it and went on their sidei just feel soo worthless i would say about 30 people would teas me because of the way i looked i wish fukin karma gets them bk twats


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Dragonflymagic answered Monday October 21 2013, 11:33 pm:
Telling one teacher, if it didnt help, needs to go further. Most likely its time to bring to the attention of the principle. And your parents should know. Most schooky thing girls. If we believe it in part but not totally, it can be a good idea to put our own comment along with t ls now have zero tolerance for bullying. Out of 3 daughters, two were left along but one was bullied and though no excuse given for bullying is a valid reason...there was nothing that stood out as probable cause, like no acne, didn't wear glasses, wasn't overly shy, didn't have a weird laugh or extremely strange personality, wasnt obese or too skinny, etc...
There was no Obvious reason.
I think how it gets started is that one kid just decides one day that they don't like you even if they don't know you and have no contact with you. Then they convince their friends to not like you either. As a teen, My sister brought home her friend Teri. She said her older sister, just a yr younger than I wanted to come along until she discovered that I was my sisters older sister. I asked why? Teri said her sister Julie hated me. I found that interesting as I had never spoken to her in my life or interacted in any way. Just always saw her at a distance at school.
So it has nothing to do with Karma at this point in life. It has more to do with young peoples brains being incapable of making good decisions. They do and say things that hurt others or they do stupid things that put their own lives in serious danger. The part of brain responsible for making solid mature decisions doesnt finish developing until our mid twenties. Some teens will be ahead of the game and more mature than the majority of their classmates.
The majority of the kids who bully now do it only because one person started it. When they become mature and adults they will regret what they did as kids. Most likely only one or two will still be hard hearted individuals and have miserable lives or have increased chances of being in trouble with the law.

Let the proper authorities know. Don't give up cus bullying should never be allowed.
When my oldest was bullied, I made sure to make an appointment to see her teacher, my getting involved helped to get rid of the problem.

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lightoftruth answered Monday October 21 2013, 9:49 pm:
Karma is pretty much a belief. If you believe it, then who can stop you and who can prove you wrong?
So if you wanna believe in karma, go ahead.

Although, I'm gonna give you advice on how to deal with on your own instead of hoping that karma will eventually catch up to them.

It's really upsetting that the teacher didn't do anything. You should go see a counselor in the school or even the principal. Let them know that you're being bullied and you don't know what to do. You told a teacher but nothing ever happened.
People are mean, but you shouldn't have to deal with things like this. So keep trying to get some help. You don't deserve to be bullied.

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Razhie answered Monday October 21 2013, 7:51 pm:
Karma is a spiritual belief. It's faith. There is no evidence that it's real like gravity is real. But if you want to believe in it, no can prove to you it's nonsense.

You would probably be better off asking questions about how to deal with hurtful jerks, than hoping for karma, angels or faeries to solve your problems.

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