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who is wrong
so last night me and my sister got into a little argument about her moving back to IL wit my mom myself and little brother. so i kept begging her to come up here because once i grauate h.s she wants me to move wit her and i was telln her that i cant just up and leave my family. i became very mad and told her like all she do is want to be distant from her fsmily she left us once when she 13 now that my dad died she came back just for the funeral which i think is wrong like if your family is going through tough times why would you leave again i feel like she just run to avoid stuff so i told her that and now shes mad i havent spoke to her since yesterday i dnt feel like wat i said was wrong but im hurtn idk what to do should i apologize or not
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You should ONLY apologize for making her angry. Do not apologize for saying how you feel. Maybe you guys could sit down and talk it out. She is your sister, make up don't hold grudges.
Hope all works out
-A.B
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I think the previous comment or is right but I would like to add that you don't necessarily know the reasons as to why she left or why she made the desicions that she did. So before judging her maybe try talking to her.
I don't think she necessarily wants to take you away from your family I think that she wants to be closer to you as a sister. So remember she is your sister and its better late than never.
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Your sis has the right to live her life where she wants to.
You miss her, and maybe the family needs her, but it is still her life, even if she is being selfish or inconsiderate iyo.
Suggest you tell her WHY you got mad and how much you miss her, but respect her wishes or you might make a forever rift.
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