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how to get my 2 biffs back
16/f i really hurt my 2 best friends very badly (emotionally). i was just recently diagnosed with schitzonfrenia, anxiety, depression and my 2 friends got involved with it. i never had a good realtionship with my family and the 2 most importnant ppl to me are my friends. they absoutly hate menow and will not speak to me. weve been best friends for like 5 years and we are together every single day all day long. its so hard to exept theyll never be my friends again. i never ment to hurt them, but they dont undertsnad im sick, but im still the same old person i always was (i havent changed, i just hurt them *not gunna say what happened*)it was bad tho. how do i deal with out them when my whole entire life revolved around them =[ please help
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i'd tell them how important they are to you and maybe explain your sickness to them a little so that they can understand a little more of what happened between you guys. i doubt that after how long you guys have been friends they cant ever forgive you even if it was really bad.
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Well first off, if they won't listen to you in person, send them a heartful email explaining why you did what you did and that you are only going through depression. Tell them what their friendship means to you. If they are true friends, they should understand. Remember that forgiving takes a long time, but if they are able to talk to you, thats a start. It will probably take awhile. Remember that everything won't go back to normal right away. It will take awhile. I hope i helped = ]
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I've dealt with an anxiety disorder my whole life, so I know what it's like to feel out of control to the point of lashing out and hurting others. I would love to help, but unfortunately, you really haven't provided enough information for me to assist you with. I would have to know what you did to advise you on how to remedy the situation. Please feel free to email me or ask me a question personally/privately, and I'll do my best to help. If you need information on how to contact me, just read my bio. :)
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*to answer your feedback question*
It is really hard to forget about really great friends but try making new ones. If you can't possibly live without them give them some space for a while and try again.
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