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people get sick of me~
ok well i'm pretty good at keeping friends (when i'm in school) but anyways i don't know how to keep them interested,you know? people get bored of me fast,i hate it ! i just stop my energy for some reason after a cirtain point. how can i keep my energy up? i'm not sick of them, its nothing to do with them,its me. i just loose energy and stop being so talkative,its weird because i'm usually so much more talkative. any help? this is probably confusing.sorry.
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Maybe you just feel as if you don't have much to say anymore, you've said it all. If you run into this problem you might want to do something different with your friends something bound to bring up a conversation rock climbing, scuba diving. And if that doesn't work you should take the time to think about all the details of these friendships, spice it up!
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Don't loose your confidence. Show your friends how fun you can be. You don't want to be a completely different person though. Show them a good time with a fun activity outside of school. It helps if you start to talk about stories of the past. Like your embarassing stories, those seem to get people hooked. I sorta used to be like that, no one would really bother talking to me, but i started joining different clubs at school and finding interests that we have in each other to make new friends, and to socialize more.
hope i helped!!
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Don't lose confidence! If people see you losing confidence in yourslef it might cause them to venture away from you. Don't think you make them bored, this might be whats causing you to be less energetic. Prevent this from happening, since you are a talkative person don't be afraid to use your gift! Have movie parties.. you know things to motivate you to keep your friends, it should improve your energy
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No, no.. it's not you.
These people are boring because THEY can't keep a conversation with you. They cling on to anyone who makes them feel good and praises them 24/7. That's the truth. Why should you be expected to carry on the whole conversation? They're the boring ones. At least you try, you know?
You're mature compared to them.
It gets better as you grow up... some grow up and aren't so selfish.
Don't put yourself down or let people get you down. You're worthy of anyone you want to be friends with. So choose wisely. :)
Jen
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well mabe these people aren't intrested in you enough that they need to be your friends. you know when you can talk to someone every day and not lose the conversation is when you know you have a friend
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