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what do you do when your bestfriend is falling for the girl
So; ive been talking with this girl since April; and duh its now July. Well lately; the past week and a half ive barely talked too her and ive noticed she's been on the phone & hanging out with my so called "bestfriend" and me and this girl have veryy strong feelings for each other;this i know for a fact. but her & my so called bestfriend are now supposibly talking. and it all happend sooo quickly. what am i supposed to do w/ the feelings that are just THERE?
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Well you should have talked to your best friend about it earlier, because best friends don't do that to one another. You said they were just talking, talking is okay, maybe he wants to get to know her, eh? You also said that you and the girl have strong feelings for one another. They don't just go away one night. They're probably still there, but you HAVE to talk to her soon because some girls loose interest quick. Kthx.Bye.
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maybe before things get any farther with the girl that you like and your friend, you should tell your friend that you have feelings for this girl, or tell the girl that you have feelings for her.
Theres prob. nothing going out with your friend and the girl, i personally think that you friend would tell you if he liked her or that they were going out or something.
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What's wrong with telling her? Her & your best friend aren't exactly dating yet. They're just talking. If you don't tell her how you feel & just let them get together, you're going to be wondering if she ever did really like you & if you guys could've dated. You definitely don't want that. You should talk to your best friend also & tell them how you feel about the whole situation. Does your best friend even know how you feel? They might not & really have no idea that its bothering you. Your feelings are going to be there until something is solved. Either you have to let them go & move on, or you have to express your feelings to both of them & see what happens. If it doesn't work out, there's nothing wrong with being friends with them & then moving on to someone else.
-hope that helped!♥
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