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how can you help me??
i need advice on moving back with my mom.. i cant take this anymore.. i need answers from people with ideas of excaping my parents ..im not trying to say anything bad.. but i am really depressed unless im with my mom again!!!!! i know this sounds kind of bad because i want to get rid of these people in my life.. but let me explain:
they made me get adopted to them 3 years ago when i was 12..ive been on hold with my life ever since..so i need help..major help!! i dont want any answr about trying to get along with my adopted female and male guardian....i just want to know if there is any way to excape...without being in trouble...if there is no way you can help.. my life is totally ruined...i rather be dead than to live with these people..just saying.. I CAN"T TAKE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!
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well sorry that i cant help you on this, but i can tell you one thing: never say you'd rather be dead. you are more blessed than you think!!
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First off, talk to them about this. Write a note, at least if you can't do the talking part, or if they wont let you get your word in.
Suggest that they talk to your real mom about the situation. Maybe you could go to a court to get her custody?? I know that's what you'd do in a divorce situation, andyou're almost old enough to be choosing anyways.
Please, if this dosen't work out, though, realize that you're almost at the age to be moving out anyway, so you can choose to live with your mom or not. (almostt)
Make sure you at least talk to your mom as often as possible if this dosen't work, it will help!!
Write my email if you need anything!!
xo_graziano_ox@hotmail.com
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I think you should tell the police about this.Theyll help you get back with your mom again.If your mom dont have any money to take care of you then get a job,im sure 15 is old enough to work somewhere.That way youll live with your mom AND have money.Also keep an eye on your future.One daitll all change and youll have a real job and college degree but you have to be good in school.The future can be different.If you need any more help id be glad to help you just drop me a question.
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Why are these people your illegal guardians in the first place? If your mom, doesn't have the money to take care of you or anything.. then I can't really help you. If shes ok.. & wants you.. then I would like call her up, or talk to your guardians about it. What the heck could your guardians do to you, that you can't take? If there not abusing you, treating you unfairly, or cruely or whatever.. then.. I don't understand why your complaining. If they took you in, because you need a roof over your head & food on your plate.. then I think thats awfully shelfish of you to be complaining. If all they are trying to do, is take care of you .. & be there for you.. then, you have alot of issues to take care of. But, if they are abusing you in any way or anything like that.. tell your teacher, the police, your friends mom, anyone at all. & get help immediatly.
If not, I hope you start being a little more grateful.
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I dont think that there is really any thing that can be done.If your new gurdians abuse you stuff like that then that would have to go to court.If you know who your case worker is then talk to him/her or a guidence person at school.
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