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My Past Has Been Affecting My Life


Question Posted Sunday July 2 2006, 11:13 am

Hello, my name is Racquel and i am 14 years old. Ever since i was little i was always bugged by girls in every single grade of school. And now, since im in grade 9 now, it has been really affecting my emotions.. can anyone help me find a way to help me with this or give any advice as to dealing with this. I dont want to cry anymore, and get angry all the time.

Thanks,
Racquel<3


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Nadia answered Monday July 3 2006, 4:39 am:
I know what you mean....I used to get payed out by most of my year, yr8s and most of the year 9s, I didn't even know most of them. I had just started high school and word got around quickly that i was a "square", "nerd", what ever you want to call it. I was only labeled this because I did my work and handed in assignments on time. ANYways, find someone you can trust to talk to about it. As crazy as it sounds the school counsellor is actually pretty good, i was forced to go to ours once when i attempted to kill myself...she was heaps nice n stuff. so yeah, otherwise a trusted friend, no need to expand on the reasons there.
if u need to talk give me a shout! :)

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JazzyGotDaAnswer answered Sunday July 2 2006, 4:01 pm:
you know what you do. when ii was in high school and i use to feel that i was getting mad i use to go in the bathroom look in the mirror and say im better than this i have confidennce i am stron keep telling your self that and you will be strong and able to handle every situation.

Strength is the key

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lulabelle answered Sunday July 2 2006, 11:49 am:
I know how you feel. This happened to me a lot when I was young too. I remember a particularly mean girl in the 6th grade. I was going home crying everyday. I spoke to my mother about it and this is what she told me to do. She told me to be sickeningly sweet to this girl and anyone else that was mean to me. Always have a smile on my face and not to say anything mean back to her. She said that eventually this girl would look ridicules to everyone else because I was so nice. I'd be making friends w/other people and they wouldn't like what she was doing to me. I did exactly what my mother told me (one of the few times) and lo and behold it was not long after that this girl was asking me to spend the night with her. I'd also let your mother in on what is going on here. She may have advice for you that would work better than what I have suggested or at least an idea that may add to this. I have used this method throughout life and though it has not worked every single time w/regards to getting the other person to be my friend, it has always worked with developing friends and a strong support group. When you have friends around you when someone acts like that it doesn't matter to you what they say. When it doesn't matter to you what they say and this mean person sees that what they do won't affect you, they stop and move on to the next person. These people do this to get a reaction out of you. They live for this. Don't react (no matter how you feel) and they loose interest. I hope this helps!



Namaste!




LULABELLE

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clarayow answered Sunday July 2 2006, 11:40 am:
Hi Racquel. It seems like you really have an issue and i would really like to help you out there. Maybe you could elaborate more on your problem? Like for eg, what did the girls do when they bugged you? You can send your problems to my inbox and I'll try my very best to help you out. take it easy =)

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