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soo....AHhhhh its long sorry
so i told this guy i liked him on my space... this is what i said...
I like you...if you havent noticed.
And its fine if you dont like me.
There are many reasons why you wouldnt.
And reasons that you would.
I just want to know if you do or not cause..
i dunno just cause....
Its just good to know these things.
I know you probally wont get this till like tomarrow night.
You know in my profile where it says "Always tell someone how you feel about them;
you will feel much better when they know. "
I dont think imma feel better just more vulnerable and unsure and scared....
Just reply if you do or if you dont....
Just wondering..
and this is what he wrote back .....
WOW... yea thats kinda hard 4 a girl to do- especially if i dont really show u that i like u. its kinda late but better late than never -right? A part of me does like you
but..... you probly thought that was coming
but there are other reasons
that are keeping me from really tryin to get with u. im sorry :( :( :(
that took alot of courage thank u 4 tellin me
& not keeping it a secret
I really hope things wont be too awkward between us now i really really hate that feeling
tomorrow just say sumthing to me even if its just a "HI" but dont do it when im busy because i dont want you to think im not paying attention -GIVE ME A HUG im not playin if you dont give me a hug & say bye-ima miss u(because im graduating) im gonna tackle you :) O.K.
see you tomorrow !!!!DONT SKIP SCHOOL!!!!
your not getting off that easy
What do you think i should do...?
Just let him go on or try to help him with his
"reasons" ?
What could they be ??
Sry its long
Rate for good answers
thanks
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it sounds like he tried to like you, but it just didn't work out. maybe he'll change his mind and start to like you someday. i would just let it go and move on though, because someday you'll find someone that you like even better that's crazy about you too. at least you KNOW how he feels about you, because it's better than not knowing, and just wondering all the time if he likes you or not. just talk to him and say hi and hug him and everything, so it doesn't feel so awkward.
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"Reasons":
-Friends?
-Family?
-He's graduating and you're not, so he won't see you?
-Religion? [this was a big thing for me, and it is for some people]
-Fear?
-Grades/School?
-Job?
I'm not sure about any other reasons though. I think he does like you, he's just afraid to say so... and there might be real reasons that are keeping him from asking you out. Don't be pushy about "helping", but tell him that you want to be friends with him, no matter what he chooses to do. Be a supportive friend. I think he'll find out his true feelings and let you know.
I think you should say "Hi" and <b> give him a hug! </b> Be happy! It sounds like he really likes you and wants to go out with you, but something is keeping him - something that he holds highly. Don't push him, that'll just turn him away. Be happy, supportive, loving and friendly. Don't forget to give him a hug and say "Hi" (at least!) and try to chit chat a little with him. Talk to him online and through letters/phone/in person. :) Be the best friend that you can be, and maybe one day he'll be your <i> Prince Charming </i> or <i> Knight in Shining Armor </i>. But don't get too worked up over him, not so soon. You never know... he might be a loser in aluminum foil and a toad in disguise. Just kidding. Nothing so severe, just don't get too emotionally attatched. It will hurt.
-FunnyCide
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No one really knows what his reasons might be but he probablly just doesnt want to get too close to you since he is graduating. He does like you tho. You dont have to give up on him completly but just ask what his reasons might be. Good luck. ex__o0h ♥
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well he sounds like he did try to see if he liked you the same way you like him. you never know, he may find out he does some day. but since you already spilled your heart, i would just let it be. giving reasons for liking you may be kinda weird. do what he says and still say hi and all that because you really dont want it to get awkward. he sounds like a nice, understanding guy.. so just keep talking to him and like i said, you never know.
hope i helped & good luck- :)
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