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Question Posted Sunday January 2 2005, 12:39 am

My BFF krystal ebel died in a TRAGIC car accident how should i handle it!?

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BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS answered Saturday February 12 2005, 11:57 am:
that must be really hard for you, and im sorry that had to happen to you ... talk about it with people.. be open becuase if you hold anything inside you are just going to tear yourtself all up about it...

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mysuperkwladvice answered Friday January 7 2005, 8:47 pm:
think about what krystal would want ur reaction to be from her death. think to yourself if she would want you to pitty her.

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Anjela answered Thursday January 6 2005, 4:56 am:
Thats not something people can tell you...you need to figure out how to handle it..only you know this person and only you know how close you 2 were.
~Anjela

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curlz answered Sunday January 2 2005, 9:43 pm:
OMG IM SOO SRY i went through the same thing in septemeber my good friend died and being around people helped and so did crying i still cry time to time so dont be afraid to cry and dont worry god want punishin her he probably needed another angel just think of all the memories u had with her if you need to ask more quesions or need to talk to me talk to me through this

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samiam0359 answered Sunday January 2 2005, 9:33 pm:
go to a councilor to talk to them about how you feel and you soon will feel better..but im so sry to hear about this!! hope you feel better
hope i helped
sam

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perfectdevil123 answered Sunday January 2 2005, 6:51 pm:
talk to a counciler or another close friend.its best to talk about it and say what you are feeling to make the pain go away.im sorry for the loss.
i hoped i helped and be strong!lol

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Sunday January 2 2005, 2:52 am:
go to counsoling-trix

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monkeygirl answered Sunday January 2 2005, 1:23 am:
OMG honey I am so sorry.. It's gonna take a little while... you can't just get over your friend dying right away.... You need to open up and talk to people about it.. also don't be afraid to cry you need to let you feelings out.. I know what your going thru if you need any further help you contact me and I will be there for you.. Good Luck honey and start feeling better...... I read this and started crying... plz if there is anything I can do for you plz i mean plz talk to me.. I had a couple of things happen to me that are similiar. hunny i am here for you.


Oh my god what is wrong with you people this girl just lost her best friend.. don't tell her to kill herself or laugh about it.... some of you people are sick in the head... Hunny if you need any further help you let me know alright...

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hiximchristine answered Sunday January 2 2005, 1:11 am:
aww babe im sooooo sorrry for you! Its hard losing someone..i mean you should really talk to a counselor or a parent about how you feel. I mean its okay to cry at night or anytime ..if you do cry. Keep a journal or something. My uncle died and when that happened i didnt know what to feel, think or do..i mean my mom was sad and she cries but i didnt really know him that great but i still felt wicked shitty cause he was my uncle and i dont really think there IS an easy way to handle this..you just have to live life to the fullest and keep your head up and while keep thinking about your best friend..jsut have fun, i know its hard to do something when your so sad but jsut try..IM SOO SORRYY!!! =[

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hyperNerd05 answered Sunday January 2 2005, 1:01 am:
awww im sooo sry to hear that well best way to handle it is to help other people deal with like her family or you can talk to a consler about it
-*Tori

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blondebombshell33 answered Sunday January 2 2005, 1:00 am:
oHh i am super sorry to hear about that! one of my friends parents just recently died too so i know how hard it is to handle... because i have also had friends that have died too. my friend though goes to grief group... they have it at our school... but their everywhere. i'm not very religious... but if you believe in God... that has helped my friend alot! find someone to talk to and do stuff too to get your mind off it! i'm super sorry! good luck!
xOxO, aLeX

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PuReLuVeR143 answered Sunday January 2 2005, 12:56 am:
Wow, I`m so very sorry. You really need to call God into your life right now.. The only way you are ever going to touch your best friend, Krystal, again is through God. I would sit down in a cozy, happy place, and ask God to help you heal through what has happened... I cant tell you what to say, because he has to come from your heart.. There obviously needs to be atleast a month for you to mourn over her death, but after that, really try and let go because it will save your life a lot of tears.. Im really sorry again, love kristin

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Reesespieces022 answered Sunday January 2 2005, 12:51 am:
oh my god i am so incredibly sorry. i don't think there is one certain way to "handle it" right now im sure your in shock, you feel angry, upset, depressed...anything your feeling is okay. don't be afraid to lean on your friends and family. i know it hurts, but look at pictures of you and krystal, talk about those hysterical times you had together. a great person once told me that you'll wanna blame someone, but that isn't the answer, and its not gonna help. for reasons that we wish we could explain, krystal left life earlier than expected. things will be no doubtedly different. but krystal is with you all the time now. watching out for you. and as much as you miss her, she loves you, i can promise you that, and you will always love her, no matter where she is. no matter what, she will never ever leave your heart. if you need someone to talk to, Im me at ReeSes029 or leave me a message. you're in my prayers.

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