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bestfriend
ok here's the deal, my bestfriend and i have known each other for about a year and a half, we dated for a long time before he told me that he wasn't in love with me, the thing is, we are "friends with benefits" and i'm ok with that, it's just it's hard because i am totally 100% crazy in love with him and i want to be with him and date him again and i'm not sure if he wants the same thing. he said that he was going to think about us getting back together but i'm not really sure that he wants to. what should i do?? please help
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i think u should tell him. theres no need to keep that ur in love with him a secret. find a way to say that n then c wut happens from there. remember to be honest n tell him wut u have to say dont keep any secrets like that. its always best to tell the truth. <3 xogiggles37xo.
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Talk to him about that and see what he has to say and tell him how you feel towards him-trix
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You might really want to be with him but there are two problems here
1-he dosent really know what he wants
2- I dont think you understand that hes feeling really insecure right now and needs some time
Let him think about it. And dont be surprised by what he chooses dont get your hopes high because then you will really feel heartbroken. So relax and let him decide whats in your future. Good Luck
-Jacky!
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ok u should just b friends or tell him how ur feel it is noty really smat to date ur bf because what if u break up uze a fight u may stop talking to each other
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Well im 15 years old, and i gone threw what you are going threw.
I think that you and your friend needs to sit down and talk about everything..ask him if he sees you in his future, tell him what you feel and if he can't except it and all he want's to do all the time is be friends with benifits then you really don't need him. You guys are basically doing stuff together and not because you guys like each other, because it's fun right?? well then if you really loved him you would let him go..i know it is REALLY hard, but if that is going to happen then move on and get someone that you can have a relationship with that will care about you and love you as much as you love him. look at it this way..you can't love someone and not have them love you back, and still be happy!
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Hi now I'm only 13 and I don't know how old u and ur friend, but please don't just dismiss my advice because I am 13. I am very advance and I know my way around the world. U gave him a chance for love and it didn't work out for him... he told u he didn't love u... and I mean u cant just expect that to change by tryin it again. I don't think it'll change any. He doesn't feel the same connection u do... and as hard as thats gonna be to let him go... sometimes u just have to realize u have to. And the thing of "friends with bennefites" just complecates EVERYTHING! Because if u got back together I would be very weery about it... because he knows u love him... n then if he knows u think their is a relationship and trust... he might use u for those "bennefits" any time he likes. So my advice is to let go... cause in the end ur just gonna get ur feelings hurt and ur gonna get played.
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Thanx!
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Friends with beinifits always turns out with someone falling for the other person but the best adive I can give you is to just wait to see how he feels about you. If he doesn't feel the same, there's not much you can do. You can't make someone love you just make sure he doesn't use you. If it's too hard for you to continue this "friends with benifits" thing 'cause you like him to much then -stop- and don't let him use you by getting with you just for the benifits.
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