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How Many?
My younger sister constantly bugs me, because I don't have 50 friends like she does. I just have 15, 6 of which I talk to on a *daily* basis. Is it bad that I don't have a million friends like she does, or is she just being a bitch?
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well i think its up to you if you want all kinds of friends.but your sister is proly just being a snob about it .
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I actually think it's better that you DONT have a ton of friends. I think the more you use the word "friend" the less important it becomes. Personally, I have only THREE...go figure, but I guarantee you that I would do anything for them and feel that they would for me, without asking a question. Sure, I have tons of acquaintances, but when it comes to "FRIENDS", Tina, Dave, and Alisha do it for me. No, It's not a bad thing at all. As time passes and you both grow to depend on others for different things, you'll see.
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People are different of course, so if you're happy with your friends, who is your sister to judge? I have six friends that I talk to on a daily basis just like you, and I'm happy, whereas there are some who like to hang out with a lot of people. Why does the number of friends matter, when it all comes down to 'quantity vs quality'?
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think.. would you rather have 50 aquintances.. or 6 really good friends that you can count on. Thats a lesson that i learned the hard way. Dont beg for friends.. n dont envy others for having so many... your sister probably bugs you cause she;s jealous that you have 6 close friends... and she doesnt
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i WOULDNT WORRY TO MUCH ABOUT THIS BECAUSE SHE IS PROBABLY JEALOUS OF YOU FOR SOME OTHER REASON
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its not bad....the less people u hang around the less ull be talked bout...have fun w/ur life and dont let ur sister ruin it 4 u...
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A real friend is someone is sincere and you can trust,Quantity does not come into it because even if you only had one who you could discuss you problems with then why worry about your sisters insecure social state where she has to have loads of people around her which I doubt you can call genuine friends
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She is just being a bitch, and trust me you don't want to have a lot of friends. Having friends is cool but having to many makes things really complicated. Like for me I had to make a balance of who is a friend and who is a close friend. And trust me it sucks because your having a bad day and you have a lot of friends, you tell each one which is wrong and 5 minutes later the school knows. SO she is just being rude because you rather have a small group of people you can be friends with.
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