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ok so im 17 and i was wondering i have read that guys prefer the girls to swallow there cum after oral sex is this true or would they rather us to spit everytime i ask guys they say either way but i want to know seriously what they prefer i know it would be different for different guys but what would most of them seriously want
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Having done both, I can't say that there was a noticeable difference in reaction. However, until you've done it a few times, make sure there is something nearby for you to spit into before he gets close, even if you intend to swallow. (a cup, large amounts of tissues, a towel, etc.) Guys differ in how forcefully it comes out and in the amount that comes out, so you might need to spit even if you intended to swallow, or even if you swallowed some of it.
One way around this dilemma is to use a condom - then it doesn't get in your mouth at all, and the condom comes off and goes in the trash. They come in flavors specifically for this purpose. :)
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By and large almost all guys tend to prefer that a girl swallows. I'm told it can be a bit tough for some women although a glass of water would likely help. Regardless if you can't do it without choking and gagging then it's likely to be worse off than spitting. Try not to let this give you any performance anxiety.
As well some men apparently don't like it when girls swallow, although I'm not quite certain why. They tend to be a very small minority however.
In general though, guys want you to perform oral sex on them. Swallowing is the cherry on top. It's typically a preference and as long as they're getting head most guys aren't likely to complain.
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This one's simple. Don't let someone else dictate what YOU feel. What do YOU prefer?
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I'm not trying to control your life or anything...but if you think you should be doing this at 17, you're wrong. I know you're probably just curious about it, and it doesn't mean you plan on doing this, but if you don't even know what kinds of things to expect, then you ought not be doing this. (I'm not saying that you said you are going to, but I just want to make my opinion clear). But then again, it's your body and your choices.
Ask a close guy friend, ask your boyfriend if you have one and if you feel comfortable, or just search the web because that can be very useful.
Make the right choices :)
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umm... i dunno how about just don't do that
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just do what you are rather happy with doing since you will be doing the job!
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not all guys are the same.
if i was a guy, i dont think it would make a difference. if you dont want to swallow, you dont have to. and if you tell a guy you dont want to and they try to get you to do it, say: "i'll tell you what. how bout YOU taste it, and then you can tell me to swallow."
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Well I wouldn't know now would I want to... I would think swallowing would be more sensual... like "a part of you in me" sort of thing... spitting out could be a sort of "yuck to you"... it really should be up to you... if you cant swallow don't! it's suppose to be pleasurable not uncomfortable or revolting...
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Try to ask maybe a close guy friend. Guys you're close to always are a big help.
-shay :-)
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