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Talking(not bitching) behind someones back
In my A level Chemistry class there are only about 10 of us. One of those 10 is not happy with me for reasons I shall now describe.None of her friends will listen to my side.
At a 6th form party she majorly fell for this guy I know.In school the next day she was OBSESSING about him,disecting text messages and talking about him constantly.
I am friends with the guy's brother (and to a lesser degree the guy). She gave me strict instructions not to talk to the guy about her and so I didn't.I did however have a very short conversation with one of my friends and the brother.All we said was that she had been talking about him a lot and dissecting his text messages.
She found out about it and next day she and all of her friends are really pissed of with me,not the other girl who was also part of the conversation,just me.
It wouldn't be much of a problem except for the size of the chem class.
what should I do?
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It sounds like this will blow over if you give it time. You could say that you are sorry about talking about what she said.
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I agree with spacefem here. It's mainly her overeacting. There is nothing you can do short of going to her directly.
And as for her friends, ignore them. Or just give them dirty looks. They won't do anything to you. People in highschool can be ruthless, and karma will bite them in the ass, and that's your chance to give them bad karma!
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I think the whole issue sounds overdramatic on both sides. If I were you I'd try to get her alone and ask how she feels about the situation. Be a good listener. Ask how she really feels about the guy, because it might not be what it sounds like, and she'll like you better anyway if she thinks you care. Good conversation starter if nothing else.
And if nothing works, don't worry about it. Just ignore the social crap going on around you and chemistry away, it'll all work out.
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