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In my A level Chemistry class there are only about 10 of us. One of those 10 is not happy with me for reasons I shall now describe.None of her friends will listen to my side.

At a 6th form party she majorly fell for this guy I know.In school the next day she was OBSESSING about him,disecting text messages and talking about him constantly.

I am friends with the guy's brother (and to a lesser degree the guy). She gave me strict instructions not to talk to the guy about her and so I didn't.I did however have a very short conversation with one of my friends and the brother.All we said was that she had been talking about him a lot and dissecting his text messages.

She found out about it and next day she and all of her friends are really pissed of with me,not the other girl who was also part of the conversation,just me.

It wouldn't be much of a problem except for the size of the chem class.

what should I do?
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I agree with spacefem here. It's mainly her overeacting. There is nothing you can do short of going to her directly.

And as for her friends, ignore them. Or just give them dirty looks. They won't do anything to you. People in highschool can be ruthless, and karma will bite them in the ass, and that's your chance to give them bad karma!


I'm surrounded by idiots. My chemistry teacher has to spend whole classes explaining concepts over and over. How do I deal with people who are thick as a brick when I just want to get a good grade in chem? (link)
I had the same problem as you did, but it was in basic science in my freshman year! I was so frustrated that I started skipping school because the kids in that class were.. *stupid*. I even had a conferance with a vice pricpal, but all he told me was that I had to stick it out, because transfering me would automatically get me a failing grade.

I freaked out in the class, and from then on everyone thought I was a physco.

If the teacher won't help, nor the admin., take the issue to a counsler. If that doesn't help, and your parents influance don't help.. go to the school board. They're bound to listen.

If all else fails, go to the media! :D




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