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I feel like my mother is holding me back from getting a job
Posted Tuesday May 31 2022, 10:31 pm
I feel like my mother is holding me back from getting a job
First things first, I know she’s just looking out for me but I feel like she’s babying me. For context I have autism and a couple of other medical conditions. I’m currently studying media production in the United Kingdom and am searching for jobs in the TV industry (trying to juggle a job with college so that once I am done with college in 2023, I’ll still have something I’ll be doing) which is proving difficult but I’m going to work as hard as I can to try and get there- but my mum doesn’t seem to think any of these jobs are a good fit (as I’m very much an introvert) and just nitpicks them and nitpicks my ambitions or says I can’t juggle both.
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I'm so tired of strangers assuming I don't know anything about computers...
Posted Tuesday May 31 2022, 5:55 pm
I am in my late 60s and worked with computers as long ago as the 1980s. Whenever the subject of a computer comes up or the internet with a total stranger they never give me any credit for being knowledgeable with computers. Today I was attending a physical therapy session, and someone asked me if I know anything about websites at all. I was really amazed. I reply that I worked with computers in the 80s. I realize that maybe some people may not mean anything by it, but I'm getting so tired of people assuming that I know nothing about computers and even nothing about cell phones. I'm still young and attractive and I don't understand the reason for this. It is not like computers just came up on the scene 6 months ago. What do you think of this?
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I have personal things in storage facility and I need to move out of state
Posted Monday May 30 2022, 7:43 pm
I want very badly to move out of state. I have a lot of personal belongings in a storage facility. Could someone please tell me the best fastest and cheapest way of moving them out and getting them to where I want them to go? I don't have any furniture or appliances. They consist of luggage bags and boxes. I do not drive and have no vehicle. What also complicates this is that I am not sure where I will be living when I get to the new place. At first it will be it will have to be some type of hotel. I greatly appreciate your advice thank you.
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Should my brother visit my dad who left us?
Posted Monday May 30 2022, 3:15 pm
Some background information:
- my dad cheated on my mom and left us to live with his mistress
- my brother has a mental and physical disability
- my brother has severe trauma from all the fighting my parents did and his psychologist told me he trusts me the most
- my brother visits my dad every sunday and always comes home crying.
- last sunday my brother told me he did not want to see my dad anymore if I did not go with him because he only feels safe when i am with him
- a month ago my dad attacked my mom and got thrown into prison for a week (I was not home during this, I was at my dorm in another city)
Last week my brother told me he did not want to see our father if I did not c...
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General Questions about Masturbation Issues
Posted Monday May 23 2022, 6:03 pm
This is embarrassing thing to talk about but it is all anonymus so I guess that makes it ok. I am sorry if I say anything not okay but seems like people talk a lot on this site about a lot of things and it is very open and they talk about very personal stuff and about sex also. I have questions about masturbation. I am a guy and I am now a teenager and I have puberty and all that.
1. A girl I know was texting me and wanting to know personal stuff like what do I do and touch myself and how often and it was exciting to be asked but weird and I do not know her well enough to know if she would share what I say and plus I don’t want to be a freakzoid so I told her I don’t think I should talk about that with girls and she said ...
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I have a crush on my teacher!
Posted Wednesday May 18 2022, 8:49 pm
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I started gong to school for my Ged And my teacher is a man . Could he get in trouble if I ask him out ?
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Why do gay guys like to fake out straight guys online?
Posted Wednesday May 11 2022, 4:46 pm
I am consistently getting faked out online by gay guys posing as females with female pics and profiles. I would guess more than 70 percent of the people who private message me are men posing as women to flirt with me.
I am a straight guy and this is noted in all my chat profiles. It sucks more females do not message, but what is up with the dudes faking out other dudes? It is annoying and frustrating.
I totally know lying about yourself online is not limited to gay guys or transgender people faking out straight guys. People of all kinds pose as younger or older than they are, richer and more successful, use fake body stats, and obviously fake pictures. When I was under 18 I pretended to be older to talk ...
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Boyfriend won’t call me!!
Posted Monday May 9 2022, 7:07 pm
NEED SERIOUS HELP okay my bf and i have been doing long distance and it's been going pretty good, we do things like text and voice memos all the time but for some reason he just REFUSES to call me. He's done it once and it was great but after that he keeps saying he's too "nervous" or js changes the subject. At first i wanted to give him time to adjust but now it's seriously annoying, every time it's the same "sorry" and broken promise that he'll call me the next time…like I love him but i'm seriously getting tired of this sh**, what should I do???
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About a mistake i did to my younger cousin.
Posted Thursday May 5 2022, 1:21 pm
I am a 15 year old girl. I am confused on whether its my fault if i sexually assaulted my younger girl cousin but i have my reasons. My reason is because i was 10 back then and knew so little about sex that when my older brother cousin (he was 13 or 14 at that time) sexually harassed me and it made me think that touching others was normal. I feel really guilty and i did say sorry to my younger cousin but it still troubles me greatly. Is it really my fault?
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Going to be homeless tomorrow
Posted Wednesday May 4 2022, 4:52 am
Hello. I understand that this may not be the place for this but I am desperate and out of options. I was living in a small town where there is not much opportunities for employment and housing. I moved to a bigger city to find a job and stable housing for my family and I. I found a job and started working already but will not have a check for two weeks. Tomorrow I will be homeless until I get paid. I would be very grateful if you could help me. Thank you very much. Here is the link:
https://www.gofundme.com/f/v4krf-new-start-in-a-new-town?utm_source=customer&utm_medium=copy_link&utm_campaign=p_cp_guide_do&member=19075951
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Advice when your friends parents don't like you
Posted Tuesday May 3 2022, 3:17 pm
Hi,
I am a introverted female,23 years old working, from India.
I have a tough time in making friends whom I can trust and confide in.
Few months back, I went to meet a male friend A, as he was injured with another one of my male friend B. We were just talking outside his house, everything was going smoothly and suddenly his mother came can started shouting at me, that why was I sitting and talking with her son, it doesn't look good, for him roaming and talking with a girl and what not.And the crazy thing is I didn't say a word, I was on verge of crying in front of them but I controlled it, thinking there was no point of arguing.At my house I pretended everything was okay in front of my family and male friend B but at n...
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Do I cut off this friend or not?
Posted Wednesday April 27 2022, 1:53 pm
I made this guy friend almost a year ago and we snapchat everyday and sometimes talk at school. I think he’s obsessed with me though, he gets angry about any male attention i get or if i mention another male. He is constantly getting annoyed at me for stupid things that he over thinks about. He talks to me so nice when he’s happy when he’s not he speaks to me so rudely and i don’t like it. He always starts arguments if anything i do annoys him even though we are just friends. I get anxiety when he starts an argument with me. I really like being his friend but hate this side of him it makes me feel really awful and anxious. What do i do?
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Cutting off family
Posted Monday April 18 2022, 7:46 pm
Most of my family never wants me to have a kid.They dont do this with other family members and im not overly young,being in my mid 20's.The've told me that i'm not smart enough to raise a child and that reproducing would be cruel.Am I in the wrong for wanting to cut them out of my life for this? I've always wanted a family and it deeply pains me that they disapprove of the idea so much.
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I am getting some blowback admitting my virginity
Posted Monday April 18 2022, 4:25 pm
For this anonymous letter I am Calvin and my girlfriend is Susie. Like the real Calvin and Susie from the Calvin and Hobbes cartoons, Susie and I have always lived in the same neighborhood. Unlike the cartoon Calvin, I have always liked girls and had a crush on my Susie. Unfortunately, Susie was a little older and out of my league. We hung out growing up with each other as neighborhood friends. We are now 14 and 16 and I am finally taller. I had asked her out many times before (with several epic fails that will not be shared in this message). Finally, she was sweet but said not until I was in high school (to put me off for a while). But, true to her word, eight months ago just before school started she let me take her on date. It ...
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I want to change my name!
Posted Sunday April 17 2022, 10:37 pm
I am a 33 year old female and my step-dad is the only dad I have ever known because my mom and divorced when I was 3 and died when I was at the age of 12. My step dad has been in my life since I was 5 and he is the one one who has really been there . The thing is I don't know if this is possible at the age of 33 . We didn't do it when ias little because we didn't want to hurt my dad's and Granny's my dad's mom feelings? I get surviors benefits off my dad would that stop if I changed my name ? I get regular disability would I have to start all over if I changed my name?
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No privacy with GF due to flirting sister who is single.
Posted Wednesday April 13 2022, 1:00 pm
Lucky 17M dating incredible 17F. My girl’s sister goes with us on most dates because the sister broke up with her guy (who was awful). Used to go on double dates which is why I know the dude was truly awful and no good for her. My girl and her sister are twins but not identical just similar. Very different personalities. My girl is sweet and modest and so kind and more religious. She can be a tease but she is serious about waiting on sex and I know I have to just be patient and know the teasing is just for fun. Her sister is blunt and likes to say and do things for shock value and has had bad relationships and admits she is not a virgin. She has a bad reputation which is sad but some of that is bogus and due to jerks talking trash...
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Prenursing student; need advice on self-esteem and college?
Posted Tuesday April 12 2022, 8:31 pm
Okay, I'm gonna start off by saying I've been through literal hell with my mental health. In my past, I've attempted, contemplated, and fantasized about suicide too many times to count (which I haven't done either of those three again in years, so don't worry!).
I can vividly remember having anxiety issues as far back as first grade.
I've never had the psychotic issues with my mental health, but I've mainly just dealt with too much depression and anxiety issues than I could handle at some points in my life.
Anxiety and social anxiety were a little worse than my depression even though my depression was absolutely awful. I used to not be able to even set foot in Walmart it was so bad. I couldn't s...
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Is Reaction To Awkward Moment Harrassment?
Posted Tuesday April 12 2022, 3:26 pm
Hi there. I cannot believe I am writing this but here goes. It is sort of a weird role reversal sexual harassment reality check. I am not trying to get anyone in trouble. I think I might be part of the problem, but now I am sort of the focus in an unwanted way. Either way, I am not sure what to do about it.
I am a 16-year-old straight white male (he/him/his). I have a part-time job after school and on weekends as a lifeguard at our YMCA. It is a GREAT job. It was a very competitive process and I am the only one my age they have ever hired at our location.
I am also one of only a few male lifeguards here. I am not sure why they hire mostly female guards and I am not accusing anyone of anything. My mom thinks it is b...
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Young engagement
Posted Tuesday April 12 2022, 12:00 am
I’m 14 (trans male) and I have a bf (14, trans male), and I know we may be a bit young but I really want to propose to him. He’s definitely the one for me. And I could imagine loosing him, and I want to make a promise to keep so what should I do? Should I hold off or just go for it?
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Why is this guy behaving like this?
Posted Saturday April 9 2022, 10:35 am
There is this guy who knows I like him. He glares at me. He tries to make me jealous. He makes fun of me behind my back. He tries to appear in front of my eyes but ignores me. He gives me one word replies when I text him. Now I hate him a lot. But what is the reason guys behave like this with girls. If he doesnt like me back why cant he just ignore me. Why does he glare.
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