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Why is this guy behaving like this?
There is this guy who knows I like him. He glares at me. He tries to make me jealous. He makes fun of me behind my back. He tries to appear in front of my eyes but ignores me. He gives me one word replies when I text him. Now I hate him a lot. But what is the reason guys behave like this with girls. If he doesnt like me back why cant he just ignore me. Why does he glare.
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Every thing you just explained, I want you to imagine a 50 or 60 year old doing to someone his age. When I try, I just cant see many older adults with more life experiences acting this way. They have learned quickly what ways work in showing your interest and what to say and do. So I must say that based only on what, and how your wrote that both of you must be older children or middle school or even H.S. may apply. If you are an adult, I don't mean disrespect but this is something that is learned in H.S. or in 20's and those who refuse to learn, will just be unhappy in their lives. There are many different types of personalities and people in the world, even in just your neck of the woods. You are not drawn to all types and neither is anyone else. So if you don't like how he is going about letting you know he likes you, and if you don't like him, then just ignore him. If you don't like how he is treating you and not sure of what is spurring him on to bug you, but you do like him or some things about him. then talk to him. But start with a compliment first before sharing what things you do not like in a guy who is trying to get your attention by doing "describe your list of items" Instead, you would like a guy to at least treat you in a friendly manner or like a close friend or that with the extra of feeling drawn to them in a romantic way. If you want to know why he does this, you will have to communicate with him. If you would rather not do so, then you will know you have to live with it, and ignore it as best as you can while forgetting him and looking for a guy who will treat you right.
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Hi. From your description, I gather that you are both very young teenagers, emphasis on "very young".
Immature guys are awkward. They really don't have their social skills developed yet, and often, they say or do things that might be completely inappropriate, such as teasing, etc.
It could be that he likes you; or, maybe not that much! From your description of him, it makes me wonder what YOU like about HIM !
His "glaring" could be for any number of reasons, including that he has a problem with his vision and might even need some glasses ! Or, its his awkward and inappropriate way of expressing interest in you.
The bottom line is that you'll never know. I wouldn't lose to much sleep over this, or him, in any case. He doesn't sound like such a winner to begin with.
Good wishes, Dr. Stephanie
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