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Posted Thursday June 7 2018, 9:44 pm

He told me he and his girlfriend are going to end up together in the future with so sure. They already have a small kid and they live together. I told him you two are going to split up one day and it’s just a matter of time but you’ll see and that time you’ll think of me and he replied I’ll always think of you. We’re two exes. He just is very assured that they’ll never split up ever ever and when I told him you’ll split up, he didn’t seem to like it so what is it? Are men normally this sure or is he trying to tell me he’s over me or telling me to go start dating? He does know I still love him and not quite over him. We’re both Scorpios. Life and relationships are not easy. Does he wants to stay with her forever? What does he mean?

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PETS IN THE FOOD COURT?????


Posted Thursday June 7 2018, 5:20 pm

someone had a pet in the mall food court...health hazard ??? should it be reported....dogs shake dander etc....so it shouldn't be in the food court where people eat right? its not a service dog.....your take??

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Why is he saying all this?


Posted Wednesday June 6 2018, 4:13 pm

Hello,
In our 30’s

He’s an ex boyfriend of few months. He broke up with me because he wanted to be with his kids and gf. Still says he loves me when we see each other. Still the same polite, loving and caring boy. Even though we broke up we still see each other and keep making love whenever he’s at mine (I feel awful) but I still love him, love him deeply and he’s aware of that. He says he can’t be with me but says he enjoys my company and making love when we see each other. We broke up months ago. We had an argue over he can’t be with me and I told him fine, whatever, few days ago but today he asked me if I had bought a condom as I forgot the other day. So I don’t understand, we broke up, he says he can...

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I am in love with a guy who will never love me back.


Posted Wednesday June 6 2018, 2:39 pm

Long story short, just to avoid length, I like him, he doesnt know. He explicitly stated that he'll never like me back. We're both 19, we're bestfriends. I'm hoping I'd just let this feeling fade to preserve our friendship. But everyday, it just seems like a reminder that he'll never like me back. If I become honest, he said he'll drop the friendship.

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Am I thinking too much into it or is he not interested anymore?


Posted Tuesday June 5 2018, 12:40 pm

25/f

I feel like I am back in high school when I feel/think this way.

I had a crush on this guy four years ago. There was just something about him. Maybe I just thought he was cute? I'm not sure. I met him at a bar and he didn't remember me at all. Since he was in his partying phase and he told me he was drinking a lot back then. "Borderline alcoholic" is what he would tell me.

Speeding up to this year (no, he's not drinking as much anymore now): A month ago, I reached out to him to see how he was doing. And we started talking and it turns out there was an immediate spark between us. When we both saw each other, we acted neutral towards each other until a stranger tried hitting on me. S...

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Can a person become a security guard have a mental health diagnosis?


Posted Tuesday June 5 2018, 12:28 pm

Can I still qualify to be a security guard if I have a mental health diagnosis such as schizophrenia w/ bipolar, as long as I'm able to do my job?

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You answered my previous question and i would like more help


Posted Monday June 4 2018, 6:18 pm

so you answered a question about me and my sisters brothers sister and our sexual adventures. So i just need help on how to approach her. Like do i just say "hey you remember when i was rubbing your clit on the couch, you wanna take that farther?" or like idk what do i say, she is kinda awkward and so am i so idk how to approach it. Plus i still dont know if she would tell her brother like i dont know how close they are. I also think it would be kinda awkward if she said no and we're both over there because then there's this awkward silence and we're still often left at their house alone together, and when stuff is planned out isnt it more awkward. Plus what if we start doing it and she doesn't like it and tells like her mom or so...

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Trying to move to California


Posted Sunday June 3 2018, 12:21 pm

Thank you so much for clicking on my question. I appreciate your willingness to help me sort through this difficult issue. I'm a 27 year old female. My family is basically like a cult. While I love them and care for them, I understand that I need to break free because it's not a healthy environment. I could go on and on and provide story after story. But, to make several long stories short, they have isolated me to a point that is unhealthy. At this point in my life, I have one friend, and now they've prohibited her from coming into the house because my grandmother had an "intuition." I live in my mom's efficiency. I don't pay rent, but I pay the mortgage of the house and all of the utilities. So, basically, my mom doesn't pay any...

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can't be friends after a relationship?


Posted Friday June 1 2018, 10:17 pm

24/f

so to make a long story short, this guy and i dated for about two years before i ended things between us. it wasn't a toxic relationship or anything like that, but i had a lot of growing up to do and at the time, i was struggling with a lot of self-esteem issues and basically i felt unworthy of dating someone. the relationship itself was also quite bland. we didn't really do anything, except hold hands, go on movie dates, and once in a while hang out at parties. we were pretty young.

it's been about six years since we broke up. and honestly, he is a good person and i would like to be friends with him still, and I have tried to keep our friendship alive despite breaking up, but even after all this time, he ...

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Posted Friday June 1 2018, 6:59 pm

what does it mean when an ex boyfriend says, he wishes he was single so he could be with me, he told me you came on a wrong time. i cried so much even though we broke up we were still seeing each other twice a week. known for 18 months. dated even though he was still with his girlfriend as they were not happy but he broke up with me for his kids and current girlfriend. I'm not a bad person and please do not judge me but why would he say he wished he was single but he is not? we're in our mid 20's. thank you

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I need to convince my dad...


Posted Tuesday May 29 2018, 7:49 pm

So my 8th grade dance is coming up really soon, and I've been pretty sure that I was going to go. I've been browsing around online for dresses and even went to look at dresses with my friend at the mall the other day. And I reallyyyy want to go, rather, need to go, to maintain the very small social life that I've managed to build for myself. My whole life all my friends have just been backstabbing b*tches who'd ditch me whenever someone more appealing would come along. And then I moved before 5th grade, just making everything an infinity times worse. I was just a social outcast through all of 5th grade. But in 6th grade, I started making friends who actually have LASTED. Now I have a decent amount of friends (like 2 or 3 "bestie...

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Boyfriend communication


Posted Sunday May 27 2018, 8:26 am

Okay so my question starts with two nights ago when my boyfriend did not have service and he went to some waterfall place with his friends did not tell me. Then he went to one of my childhood friends house who was having a small party and didn’t invite me or tell me. I was in the wrong also because I was helping my good friend dan to set a picnic for his friend Ryan and Ryan’s gf and didn’t tell him. My bf thinks I was sneaking around. So therefore we both suck at communication and to him it’s not fair and I suxk more. Even though last night he was at a friends house with this girl that I do not like and she put my bf all over her story and yeah I was upset. So my question is how do I approach the situation do I get mad at him for b...

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hahahahhahahah i want to die hahahahahah


Posted Sunday May 27 2018, 1:59 am

It's not that I want to die, I'm just tired of living as myself. I don't want this to be some pity party bc trust me, I know how privileged I am. I know how lucky I am to be living in a relatively wealthy household, during a time period and place where girls can go to school and where I can have a future. "future" haha...
I can't imagine a future where I'd be happy. I'm smart and I'd have good college apps so I'd get into some UC schools and maybe even make it to some of the shitty Ivies if I'm lucky. I'd feel just as alone as I do now. Be just as confused. Ok I don't want this to sound like some poor teen girl with no self esteem but WHY THE FUCK DO NO BOYS HAVE ANY INTEREST IN ME WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK! Don't give me the &q...

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What do you think this phone message meant?


Posted Saturday May 26 2018, 11:17 pm

On Friday, the dude I'm dating called me on my landline at a time when he knew I wouldn't be home. He left this message: "Just calling to say hi. Hope you're doing something fun this weekend."

I thought it was rude, like he was saying, "I'm calling you when I know you're not home to tell you: Don't think you're going to get to spend time with me this weekend, because I won't be available."

I think he should have just not called at all.

What's your opinion?

Thanks!

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I Found Porn On Family Computer


Posted Saturday May 26 2018, 6:08 pm

Hi,

I am a female preteen. I recently found porn in the search history of our family computer. I didn't watch any of it, but I saw that there were many, many searches for this. My mom and dad both use this computer, and I am allowed to use it. My older brother will be leaving for college soon, and he has his own computer, so I do not suspect he is the villain. Should I confront my parents? I live in a household where sex and the like are never mentioned, so this is especially hard. Thank you for taking the time to read my question, and sorry for the grammar mistakes, I am only twelve.

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A Love That Don't Want To Be Loved


Posted Saturday May 26 2018, 3:33 am

I am in love with someone who I know loves me but has too much pride to admit it. What and how long should I wait?

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FLIRTING WHILE MARRIED/DATING WRONG?


Posted Friday May 25 2018, 10:42 am

TRUE OR FALSE, Flirting while married or dating one person exclusively is normal, healthy, fun, and perfectly fine so long as everyone involved knows it is meaningless?

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Does Job Corps help you find an apartment and job after you graduate?


Posted Wednesday May 23 2018, 10:45 pm

I keep hearing mixed answers.

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What’s he saying?


Posted Monday May 21 2018, 11:57 am

what does it mean when an ex boyfriend says, “we can go and join them as a couple?” We are still friends and in a good term. We see each other 3 times a week. I’m 30 and he’s 32. He’s got a kid with his ex wife and got a kid with current girlfriend but him and I still are in contact and message each other and we still chat up. I just feel like he still loves me and maybe wants to get back together one day otherwise why would he say we can join them as a couple..? Is he saying something because as a couple mean we’re still in a relationship, isn’t it? What does exactly mean we can go as a couple? Please do explain!

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I'm Not Wrong, Am I?


Posted Saturday May 19 2018, 2:00 am

I have recently made a decision that I feel is right, but I want to know what you all think of it. It's kind of one of those decisions where it feels like no matter what you do, it's wrong.


I have a rather toxic father who I don't have much of a relationship with. He's rude, ill tempered, intimidating, verbally abusive, selfish, thoughtless, and just downright cold. and you can't call him out on anything because he is completely delusional when it comes to his own image of himself.

Ever since he started having grandchildren, he has wanted to become closer with the family. He wants us all to spend more time together, which I suppose is pretty nice, but there's a problem. I feel bad saying this, but I d...

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