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Friendship
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How to deal with people who gossip about their friends?


Posted Sunday October 11 2015, 2:51 pm

So i have this friend who gossips about her friends way too much I don't know if she does it as a topic of conversation because she just doesn't know how to start a convo with someone (that's how I was in elementary school cause I didn't know how to make friends but I'm not this way anymore) or that's how she genuinely is cause every time I talk to her it's like she's gossiping about a best friend. Then the next day you'll see her hanging out with the same person she just talked bad about. Usually the people she talks bad about are my friends too and even though I wanna tell them what she says I can't because I don't like spreading rumours and wouldn't wanna break friendships anyways. What do I do about this friend? How can I get her to stop talking bad about her friends?

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I feel extremely jealous of my bestfriend


Posted Tuesday September 29 2015, 9:54 am

I have a bestfriend and I feel he's slowly drifting away. We graduated and he told me we would be bestfriends forever, and he still checked up on me, and he still meets me regularly, but once i see him enjoying with his other friends, he feels so distant... I want our relationship to be kept... how

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How to very subtly frendzone him?


Posted Monday September 28 2015, 10:00 pm

So my best friend and I are always together. Because of this I tend to meet her otherfriends and make friends through her. About a year ago we started occasionally visiting her friend, lets call her Laura, and also Laura's boyfriend since ge lives with her. So a few days ago Lauras boyfriend told my friend he has a crush on me, I'm terribly shy and don't know how talk to people...let alone in those circumstances.... Buy anyway he messaged me on Facebook yesterday and I didnt know what to say... He had said hey and I left it for a few hourse until i was just like 'hola' and then he didnt say anything until this morning he said 'hit me up when your not buzy' its 8 at night and I still haven't opened it or responded and I don't know what to sa...

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I have friends but still feel alone?


Posted Sunday September 27 2015, 8:49 pm

I don't have a lot of friends andI know I should be grateful for the ones I do have but I feel alone. I don't have like a group of friends all my friends are from different groups. I used to have a group of friends but we're not really friends anymore but that's a story for another time. Anyways lets talk about the kinds of friends I have friend A is really judgemental and she's always called me ugly but with mixed signals I don't if she knows that I caught on but oh well but this is how she'd call me ugly in grade 8 she said that me and this guy would look cute together, the next day she said that same guy and this other girl would look cute together because they're both ugly. She just basically called me ugly without remembering what she ...

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helping a friend who needed a place to live 'temporarily'. was only suppose


Posted Wednesday September 23 2015, 7:37 am

Helping a friend wh needed a place to live 'temporarily'. She's started sleeping on my couch and her belongings, which mostly look like trash is taking over my living room. It's just passed a year since she moved in, renting a room from my husband and me. My 2 boys can't stand her. How can i ask her to leave without sounding mean...what do I say? Do I need to put it in writing?

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Complicated situation, dont know what to do/say need help ASAP


Posted Monday September 21 2015, 2:54 am

This is somewhat complicated to explain so I'll try to be brief as I can while still being specific enough to get accurate advice. It might be really long and if it is I'm so sorry...but I'm using this as an outlet to get my thoughts straight and hopefully know what to do...
It would mean a lot if you read it all and even just your general thoughts or comments would be GREATLY welcomed and appreciated.

Okay so a little back story:

Anne has been a family friend since long before I was born, and the God Mother of my niece(who my parents are the guardians of). She didn't come around for years due to health and personal issues but about a year ago she started to visit again, and since my niece(who was having...

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How to make friends?


Posted Tuesday September 15 2015, 5:19 pm

It's my last year of high school and I regret one thing, I regret staying in my one group of friends (two people) and not branching out and befriending other people, I mean I've made many acquaintances but the relationship never becomes at least a friendship. Long story short the friends that I came into high school with aren't the friends I'm leaving high school with, one of the friends completely cut me off she was never really my friend I knew she was waiting for an opportunity to cut me out of her life and she finally did last year. The other friend is my friend but we only talk in school, last time we hung out in public was at her birthday last year. Now it's my last year and I feel like a total loser I have no social life, I'm always...

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Got into a fight?


Posted Tuesday September 15 2015, 10:50 am

My friend and I just fought over something that happened weeks ago. Apparently she never let it go and felt she had to bring it up again. She won't leave me alone and keeps texting me about it and I'm getting sick of it. What should I do?

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POSEURS BE GONE


Posted Sunday September 13 2015, 12:24 pm

Ok I'm sort of the emo of the school along with a few other kids. I got labeled, I never called myself femo, I just dressed and acted the way I like. So now there is this annoying group of girls trying to get with us. If you look at their Instagrams they keep posting depressing pictures where they insult themselves and write "I'm emo." "I have myself because I'm emo." One girl thinks she's soooo emo because she listens to 5 seconds of summer. She also keeps asking me band names, and says she likes BVB (my favorite band) and apparently has been listening to them "since they formed in the 90's" I mean 1. None of us were BORN in the 90's 2. They released We Stich These Wounds in 2010. I told her that and she said,...

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how 2 mek frenz


Posted Sunday September 13 2015, 2:57 am

How to mek frenz

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My friend is doing inappropriate stuff


Posted Wednesday September 9 2015, 10:00 pm

I'm 14 and my friend is a year older than I. We've been friends since we were little kids and our parents are close friends. Awhile ago my dad was on Twitter and he saw her page and it said stuff like "I like sex". I told my dad it wasn't hers because I didn't believe she would do something like that plus when we hang uo she doesn't seem like that. So today my friend from church was on Instagram and she showed me a picture of her in only her bra (it was a top of the body picture) and I was like wth. I need to know if I should tell my dad he was right and tell him to talk to her parent or if I should try to talk to her myself or if I should just leave it alone. If I tell my dad I'm scared she might be mad at me. And if I talk to her what should I say? Please help!

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German girl??


Posted Tuesday September 8 2015, 3:55 pm

Im a 21 year old female looking or a german girl that speaks english to help me practice speaking german, doesnt matter if english is not so great ill help you. If interested answer me back so we can trade skype usernames

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Friend won't stop calling and now she's mad?


Posted Thursday September 3 2015, 11:07 pm

Hi I'm 16 years old and recently I have been on summer vacation, in the beginnings of summer I had this friend who would constantly call me every day or at least every two-three days twice. In July I didn't mind it because I wasn't busy and I was bored so I'd answer her phone calls but now that it's August back to school is next week I've been busy. She calls me 24/7 and I'm not exaggerating in July I went to a party and she called me after I told I was at the party. The next day I went on a walk with my friend she called!!, I went to the mall with my family she called!! The list goes on and on. So finally August I just dodged all her calls because enough was enough because she always talked about the same thing and I was just done with it....

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Posted Thursday September 3 2015, 10:09 am

l need advice as I am in a financial crisis I guaranteed loan to a friend later he deserted his job and disappeared now my little salary I was getting was attached currently am getting no salary as I'm also repaying my loans I have a family and the kids have to eat and I have to pay their school fees am behind with bills I'm heavily in debts and I have no other way I can earn I have tried to find way with lending institutions but I'm already blacklisted pls advise

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My friend is going through depression.


Posted Sunday August 30 2015, 3:29 am

Hi, I am from Australia and my 14 year old friend has recently told me that she's going through depression. She is self-diagnosed. I don't think it's serious, but she told me she just feels sad. I kind of feel bad because I kind of took it like it was nothing. I did show sympathy and asked if it is something particular that's making her feel depressed or if she just feels sad. She told me she just feels sad. It's been a few months since she's told me and I want to try to help and see how she's going, I just don't know what to say.

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Prom Problem


Posted Saturday August 29 2015, 8:41 pm

This is year is my junior year of high school, and my first prom ever. It is a tradition at my all girl school to not bring a date but to bring all your friends. One of my friends suggested to bring all of my friends plus one other girl. The only problem is, I am not allowed to hang out with this girl and I don't want to. She's a bad person and had caused a lot of trouble in our friend group.I really love my friend, but I don't understand why she wants to include her in this. I'm not trying to be mean, and my mom would flip if she knew she was included. I want to go with all my other friends, except that girl. What do I do?

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i hate everyone


Posted Tuesday August 25 2015, 8:16 pm

12 year old female.

I can think of people I like, but it seems the more i get to know people, the more i can't stand them. There are 4 of my friends where i can stand them. The boys at my school are all annoying fucks who think I'm a lesbian (and won't FUCKING let it go) except a few guys i can stand. Last year i got stuck with the most annoying bitchy girls. In a group project, two of them fucked around the whole time, the boy who started the lesbian crap was acting more on task then them (he has ADHD btw), the only thing the kids i get in a group project with seem to do is fuck around. The popular girls are ego-maniacs, the nerds are self-righteous assholes, two girls i thought were my friends are bipolar narcassistic cunts...

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my friends EX


Posted Monday August 24 2015, 1:48 am

One of my friends EX's told me and only me that she and my friend broke up. she sent me a text with a smiley face emoji.I also don't know who broke it off. So I don't know if she is hitting on me and if she is should I go for it or should I wait and see what her next move is. I also don't want it to be weird for me and my friend because we have to work together for the next 9 months on a committee.

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My Best Friend is beginning to annoy me


Posted Saturday August 22 2015, 2:04 am

Hi I am from Australia, and my friends and I are teenagers. I don't want to be friends with my best friend anymore. The problem is, I feel like I can't. She is in my friend group, and she's the only one in my friend group that's in my class. She is VERY sensitive that it is beginning to annoy me. She would jump to conclusions and then think to herself that "that must be what's happening", when it's not. Then she goes and crys to our friends about something that she thinks is going on. Then I walk over to my friends and she's crying to them and they're all comforting her while I look like I'm such a bad friend. Like one time she cried to my friends because she lost her gluestick lid and thought I had it and I was hiding it (which I...

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CAn a black girl get disease in Portugal?


Posted Thursday August 20 2015, 7:48 am

So my question is can black girl get any disease in Portugal and if can whick and can she convey them to other people?

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