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I slept with someone who's dating another person
Posted Tuesday September 11 2018, 10:30 am
26/f
Let's call him Danny.
I met Danny through my sister. My sister and I were taking a group of people out of town and Danny was one of those people. Danny was on that trip with a girl he was dating.
According to the girl, they had only known each other for two weeks and were dating for only one. For some reason, I thought it was a red flag because based on seeing how things went, it looked like it was moving really quickly.
Danny told me he did not think it was pressured to move that quickly and it just seemed natural to do it that way. He liked how she didn't want to change him, etc. Also, let me mention that he said this when he was sober.
Danny challenged me to ...
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Why do men in a relationship acts infidelity?
Posted Saturday September 8 2018, 7:45 pm
Mid 30’s. He says he loves her and has a kid with her and live together only been for a few years together but still he’s having sex with his recent ex girlfriend who he still in touch behind his actual girlfriend the mother of his child as he wouldn’t dare but he wasn’t happy in a relationship at the time plus she’s no sexual at all he tells so what is this? Do you reckon he still loves his ex girlfriend otherwise he wouldn’t keep on having sex? Do you think this is infidelity? Do all the men cheat when they love their girlfriends? I’m not sure because if you love someone truly deeply you would never ever dare to have sex with another person no matter what. Do explain please!
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How do I tell him I’m not ready for sex?
Posted Saturday September 1 2018, 1:47 am
I’m talking to this guy for the second time. I’m not a virgin although I’m not sure if he is or not. Although he is the type to be a virgin. We have talked freaky before we established the talking stage and I’ve sent a few nudes, but I would really like to take things slow. I know with his last gf she didn’t send nudes at all or have sex with him Bc of her religious stuff I believe. But he wants to go to lunch and stuff and I’ve been so anxious about that Bc I’m afraid he’ll try and do stuff based on a past horrid experience. But he is a super nice guy and and seems like he wouldn’t do something I’m not comfortable with. I’m just a super nervous person and don’t know what to do or say to him to clarify that I’d lik...
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Annoyed: I'm stuck in the rut of liking guys but they don't like me back
Posted Friday August 31 2018, 8:08 pm
My love life is pretty terrible and I'm stuck in the rut of liking guys but they don't like me back or they like me and I have no interest back. Anyways in the past I haven't really liked younger guys and usually go for older guys but sometimes like younger guys if they are sweet but yes, have a lot to learn. Anyways I kinda like a guy who is younger but I am not sure if he likes me back. I used to message him a lot but lately I haven't had time to make conversation. Sometimes after not speaking for a while he talks a lot. He told me once he doesn't like to text which made me kinda annoyed but was very polite about it. Then told me he wanted to keep me around and I am fun to be around. I've got an awesome personality and says he doesn't kno...
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What do I do if my boyfriend struggles with peer pressure?
Posted Monday August 27 2018, 9:54 am
I have been dating this a guy for almost a year and one of the biggest things we argue about is his inability to stand up for himself or others. For example, a couple of months ago one of his "so called" friends called me a bitch online and my boyfriend did not say anything to him as “I didn't tell him to”. The only way he did was by me calling him and telling him how hurt I was that he hadn't said anything as he always told me he didn't like this "so called" friend anyway. Basically, he felt that he couldn’t say anything as his mom and his “so called” friend’s mom were best friends.
***I am the type of person that will stand up for anyone I love regardless of the situation.
Now he is in...
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Posted Saturday August 25 2018, 9:45 pm
My ex boyfriend messaged me saying, “you’re genuine but my destiny is already marked” with a sad emoji face and I asked back what do you mean, he said,” trust me” and “goodnight.” What’s he mean? Because we broke up but still in touch but he’s got gf now but I’m still single. I keep messaging him asking when he’s coming to visit me or catching up or is that the reason he’s fed up with me? I’m sad that I haven’t still gotten over him and I know I must. Sorry guys. We’re in our late 20’s. But why “ trust me” he said? No judgemental answers please
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It's ridiculous
Posted Saturday August 25 2018, 3:55 am
I am about to be in my 30's and I have the worst luck with guys. I have many books on relationships and they have helped in the past. However, I am meeting all the wrong guys. Everytime I like a guy they don't like me back or I seem to attract creeps. I'm seriously stuck in a rut and have no idea what is wrong with me. I have been trying so hard to focus on myself and have been going to school with working. All my life I have had no luck with guys and constantly get hurt. Everytime I meet a guy something goes wrong and they are unavailable. I am so sick and tired of running in this unhealthy cycle of meeting creeps or jerks who have no interest. This last guy I liked I thought we had a connection then he ghost me out of no where. Next, I th...
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I’m not sure.
Posted Friday August 24 2018, 3:05 pm
Hi I’m Angel... I’m 35 years old... about 6 months again I met a guy while shopping at the store... he’s 53 by the way and this is the first time in my life where I dated someone with that much of an age difference... we hit it off automatically with our first conversation... I mean, we have so much in common. I haven’t been in a relationship before him in about 8 years... And two months into us getting to know each other he admitted to me that he was in a 12 year relationship and he just broke up with his ex... at the time I was hurt. I felt lied to and betrayed... yet I continued to date him because I felt it was still early and ppl do sometimes come with baggage... now flash forward 4 months, and his ex still calls him when I’m...
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boy pregnancy
Posted Friday August 24 2018, 3:37 am
Can boys be pregnant?
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Missed period, what are the chances I'm actually pregnant (theoretically)?
Posted Thursday August 23 2018, 11:44 pm
My boyfriend and I have always used protection (condoms) and to be totally open he has a hard time ejaculating because of a medical condition he has so it's only happened once in the two months we've been together. We have sex around twice a week for several hours, but we're always super careful about using condoms and if one gets too worn out, he always puts on a new one.
There was one time he rubbed against me without one, but it was my inner thigh and I didn't feel any precum.
I've also only had sex with him of course.
Strangely enough though I feel as though I'm fairly late on my period. I say feel because I'm not positive when the last one I had was though I estimate it was more than a mon...
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MEN WOULD YOU DO THE FOLLOWING
Posted Sunday August 19 2018, 6:11 pm
would u date/marry a woman with kids that are NOT yours and she is getting no child support/no help from the bio father/fathers?
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MEN I HAVE A QUESTION FOR YOU???????
Posted Saturday August 18 2018, 3:42 pm
how long would you date a woman before you think she should have sex with you? what if she was still a virgin and was waiting till marriage, would you still continue to date her?
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He said this...
Posted Friday August 17 2018, 6:05 pm
We’re in our early 30’s. Dated for a few months but we broke up because of certain issues. Yet we’re still mates and in contact. However, my question is he told me if he was single he wouldn’t hesitate to live with me. when I asked him was it just for sex all this time because we did date and we were friends before dating and we’re still friends getting to the point now, anyhow when I asked him was it all just for sex he said no no no no, even you know that that’s not true so what does all this mean when an ex bf says I won’t hesitate to live with you if I was single?? It’s not about sex even you know that it’s not true meaning?? What did he exactly mean? I feel that he still loves me otherwise he wouldn’t say such thing...
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Should I move in with my boyfriend?
Posted Monday August 13 2018, 8:16 pm
For insight, our age are 24 and 26 and we both work full time so money isn't an issue. We've only been together about a month and a half, which is the majority of the problem, but he really wants me to move in with him. He has a 3/3 apartment and his two roommates just moved out a few months back leaving just him and his cat. I have a 4/4 with 3 roommates, but where I live they rent out by room so I could just sublease out my room and bathroom. I would be paying the same amount of rent if I were to move in with him that I do here, but I would have a much bigger space in a safer area and not have to worry about unfamiliar roommates moving in and out.
He said I could have my own room for my things and space and we would...
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Posted Sunday August 12 2018, 3:58 pm
He asked me did you miss me I replied yes and I asked him back did you he said of course now why not say yes i missed you why say of course? was he being sarcastic or fake or saying of course I miss you means as much as yes I missed you? Thanks
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Crazy feelings
Posted Wednesday August 8 2018, 6:45 pm
Hello,
First off, thank you so much for your help. I’m a 26 year old girl who has never been in a relationship. My dating experience consists of dating people for no longer than about two weeks and some sexual experimentation (but not sex yet). I’m writing because I feel so strongly about someone I feel physically ill and somewhat insane. I met a man last week who I was instantly attracted to from the moment we met. The chemistry was incredible from the get-go. I’m not sure I ever truly experienced this before. Immediately I thought, “I have a crush on him.” I found myself faintly thinking about our relationship 30 minutes into knowing him. I tried to dismiss how intense these feelings really were because I didn’...
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Heartbroken, jealous and confused
Posted Wednesday August 8 2018, 5:33 pm
So a month ago this guy I had been talking to asked me out. I enjoyed talking with him so much. We argue like cats and dogs, but he did always make me laugh and I’m adhd so I get easily confused so he found that hilarious. This was where we actually got along really well. My best friend stayed over at my house and he called and asked me what my favorite restaurant was. I was focused on finding a remote so I answered the question and didn’t think a lot about it. We got off the phone and he said we should go out to eat at the restaurant I mentioned. We got into a text argument. It was something ridiculous. Misunderstanding. I messaged him and said our argument was ridiculous and if he’d like to move on from it and he agreed. Then yester...
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Typical scorpion boy?
Posted Tuesday August 7 2018, 6:40 pm
is it normal for a Scorpio guy wanting me to talk dirty during sex? is it also normal when he wants you to wear a nice lacy lingerie? we broke up but still are good friends and yet we're still having sex while we see each other mostly in my house. I'm single and he's not but the way he wants me to talk dirty and wants me to put a lingerie on it's just like when we were in a relationship he was exactly like that. we're in our mid 20's. what is this then? is this typical Scorpio boy? I hope he don't have feelings or something towards me even though I love him but he's with someone else. any suggestions? thanks very much
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cheating boy
Posted Tuesday August 7 2018, 5:57 pm
Hi, why do a good boyfriend tend to cheat? he's lovely and been together for few years and they have a son. he don't want to leave her because they have a 2 year old son together plus he says no kids wants to see their parents separated. me, on the other hand we went out a year ago for a few months (he wasn't happy that time with his girlfriend) and he broke up with me because he's got a family responsibility besides we both been friends before we went out. until to this day we still sahy hi and hello on the message and we still see each other. i do still love him but he says he sees me as friend and he also asks, 'DO YOU WANT TO KEEP THIS FRIENDSHIP OR NOT?' i feel we both talking and visiting me still makes me think he's cheating on her, ...
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I'm in an abusive relationship
Posted Monday August 6 2018, 6:17 pm
I've come to realize it over the years. I won't get into too much detail because I don't see the point of describing all the abuse that has been endured. What I will say it that it has become very difficult to leave. I feel as though I cannot end things. The idea of ending the relationship makes me feel very anxious and afraid. Why is this? Why can I not leave, even though I have come to terms with the fact that I am being abused.
Advice and wisdom is appreciated.
27/f
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