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Feelings for another woman
Posted Tuesday November 27 2018, 4:49 pm
I am a 42 year old male. I have been married for 16 years. Several months ago my wife and I hit a bit of a rough patch. I began a text relationship with a younger coworker. Nothing physical ever happened between us. Long story short my wife found out about the messages. She made me stop immediately. My wife and I have moved forward from this event and have grown closer. The problem is I still think about the other woman frequently and sometimes it is a distraction with work and family. How can move on from my feelings from this woman?
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about with holding sex from a guy i just started seeing
Posted Sunday November 25 2018, 11:01 am
hi, I am in my early 20's. I am a med student and I surprisingly, should be the last type of person to ask for such an advice. But, I am asking anyway. I have never actually had vaginal sex before, and I am still a virgin. I recently started seeing this guy and last night, he fingered me..and I told him to wait and that we wouldn't have sex with out protection and he's cool with it. of course!the problem is that even though i have never had sex, i think i might have a simple yeast infection (because of my stressful life). i with held sex from him to protect him and obviously i won't have sex with him until i fully recover. but him fingering me kinda just happened. I know the chances of him getting it are slim to none, with out oral or vagi...
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Hoarder husband
Posted Friday November 23 2018, 7:50 pm
Hi! My husband is a hoarder. The garage, shed, second outbuilding, attic, basement is full.He is piling things up outside and We got notices from the city about the "garbage" and he cleaned up a bitbut no all. We had a final notice today, we have 14 days to clean it or we go to court. I have done everything I can to clean up over 15 years but he just keeps accumulating. I am terrified of court and jail time. He gets very angry at me when I clean up. (donate, or thow out). He will pull things back out of the trash. This is killing me. We arent speaking again this evening because of it. What do I do? Go to court and say I have no say? Thanks..
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What do I do? I no longer love him.
Posted Monday November 19 2018, 2:28 pm
What do I do? I'm married with two children and I no longer love my husband. We've been married for ten years and he is a soldier and is always gone. He doesn't acknowledge my feelings or needs. I want a divorce but with the financial situation, it would not be best at this time. I seek attention from other guys on the Whisper app but when it comes to the point they want to meet up I chicken out and ghost them. Can anyone give me advice?
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My girlfriend passed away.
Posted Saturday November 17 2018, 1:14 am
My girlfriend passed away last year and I can't move on. I need suggestions? Thank you.
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At the point where a decision needs to be made. Propose or end it
Posted Thursday November 15 2018, 5:56 pm
So I’ve been in a relationship for 5 years and my girlfriend is pressuring me with getting married. The issue is her sex drive is pretty low (We’re in our mid 20’s) and we only have sex once a week sometimes once every two and I feel like she only does it to keep me happy on routine. I’m afraid that once we get married this will get worse to the point I will be unsatisfied. I’ve brought this issue to her attention multiple times and it just ends up with her crying. It’s been over 2 years with this issue so I have given it some time. We get along really well and rarely fight but this one issue really concerns me. What should I do?
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How to navigate "needing some time"?
Posted Wednesday November 14 2018, 9:08 pm
So i recently reconnected with a guy I knew ten years ago through mutual friends. Immediately there was spark. Good connection, good conversation, comfort in being yourself without fear of judgement. Just easy. It moved fast, I won't deny that. And in the beginning he expressed that while he had been on many dates since his divorce (April), he was gun shy. I took his lead, trying to give him the pace that he needed. But he seemed very much into it. In fact he was spear heading the pace, and us. Though for those first few weeks he acted the complete opposite of gun shy. We talked all day every day, we saw each other most days as well. He would say things like "is it too soon to see a future with you" or "I could see myself fal...
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Why is he being nosy and sounds like he’s jealous?
Posted Tuesday November 13 2018, 5:48 pm
Hi ya,
My ex boyfriend saw some pictures on my desk top the other day and asked me if I fancied the boy I was with on the pictures. I said we’re only friends as we are but he sounded curious and asked, do you like this lad? I said no, he’s just a mate, he asked back, how do you know him, I said he was introduced by my friend and he looked at me and asked again, why do you have a pictures of a lad who you only have known for a 2 days, I said I’ve known him for a week, he asked back again (seemed like he was trying to find some answers from me), do you like him, I said nooooo, he’s a good lad and down to earth, he’s a friend, I replied. I mean I know my ex because when we’re dating he was a possessive, jealous and ...
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Does he like me?
Posted Sunday November 11 2018, 12:52 am
So I’m confused as to whether or not this guy likes me. I feel like I get mixed signals. Anyway, so here’s the situation. We both go to the same college and met through a mutual friend who gave us each other’s Snapchat’s so we started off as kinda pen pals I guess. We officially met at a football game since we are both senators for SGA and had to be in the same general area. We started hanging out a lot because we both got together to work on a room for the haunted house that was being set up, and from there, started having lunch together, sitting for hours talking, and eventually began going on walks around the lake at night talking about religion, family, school, etc. Now it’s gone from us going off campus just staying in the ba...
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maybe I don't love him because he didn't have all what that I want in man
Posted Saturday November 10 2018, 4:44 pm
Am in a relationship with someone who am not so sure of what I feel for him, and he love me so much that he even trust me and he always put me in his life planned. I don't know maybe I don't love him because he didn't have all what that I want in man, though he has patience. His one of those guys that have passion but he didn't have that same passion for education and I really like someone who is more educated than me. Thanks.
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I feel real anger that he broke up with me...
Posted Friday November 9 2018, 1:27 pm
I’m leaving the place because of too much heartache as he broke up with me and I can’t seem to get over him as we still catch up once a week, we’re still in touch but just once I told him today I’ll be moving from this place in 3 weeks time he said HE’S SAD and “HE WILL MISS ME” and I’m like what the hell and it was all through the text. I love him still and he knows that but also I feel real anger that he broke up with me. He will me he says, I just don’t get it and he’s saying he will try visit me at my new place. Am I not understanding nothing here??
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How can I get him to tell me what he’s feeling?
Posted Wednesday November 7 2018, 5:55 pm
Over this past year, me and his guy have been talking. We make each other laugh, have some deep conversations, etc. I’ve grown to really like him. A few of his close friends have even told me that he likes me. So, I’m pretty sure he does based off of what has happened. But, there are two problems. First, he is a year older than me so once I’m a senior, he will be going to college. And second, I don’t know how to tell him that I like him. I think it would be easier for me if he just told me that he liked me. How can I know for sure/get him to tell me? Oh and I’m a girl in highschool fyi
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How to overcome unrequited feelings? 26/f
Posted Monday November 5 2018, 12:22 am
There’s this guy who was a friend of mine who I really really really liked for a long time. This summer, I finally found the guts to tell him that I really liked him, and he politely rejected me. I had steeled myself for the possibility of his rejection, and had convinced myself I would be ok with it. But when it happened, it felt like disembowelment. I fell into a deep depression and was crying uncontrollably all day, every day for weeks. I finally hauled myself down to a mental health clinic and they said I needed psychiatric supervision in a mental hospital. I wasn’t able to do that because I have a cat and there was nobody who would’ve been able to look after her. Then, my dad got sick and I had to find a way to compartmen...
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I feel like I'm being used. Am I overreacting?
Posted Sunday November 4 2018, 8:34 pm
I've been dating a woman for seven months. I love her, and love being with her, and she says she loves me. We've even talked of marriage.
She just got a new job with long hours and a ton of responsibilities (I am self-employed). She also just moved into a new house. She now lives farther from me, nearly an hour drive. For those reasons, we don't see each other as often. I've asked, and she swears she wants to be in a relationship with me, but when I go to her house, she has me do things like fix, install, or build things. We are hardly ever alone, and we never have sex anymore. She has a lot of close friends and she feels like she needs to give us all equal time. She also never comes to me. She tells me she loves me, but tonight she ...
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He says it’s alright
Posted Sunday November 4 2018, 5:58 pm
I’m moving further away from him. 4 hours drive. We broke up about 9 months ago but still we’re good friends. However, when I jokingly asked him if he was coming to visiting me, he said yes, I won’t mind visiting you. And I told him, no no, you don’t have to though but he insisted and said yes, I don’t mind visiting you so what’s he implying here? Is it a good thing or a bad thing?
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He tells me he always thinks of me, why?
Posted Thursday November 1 2018, 7:21 pm
Hello,
Ex boyfriend told me that he always think about me. What does that mean? When we were together he used to say he miss me but now as we’ve broken up, he says, I’ll always think of you. I know, think of you isn’t same as miss you but still. We’re still in touch and still message each other also see each other twice a week. He’s 23, I’m 20. Thanks guys!
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My Boyfriend Has No Money
Posted Saturday October 27 2018, 10:50 am
My boyfriend has no money and neither does his family and we can’t do anything. We can’t even go out for breakfast or go on a date because they do not have any money. I seriously don’t know who to talk to or what to do i just want a normal relationship where i can go to get breakfast.
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My fiance tells people it's going to be a long time before we get married?
Posted Tuesday October 23 2018, 12:08 pm
Hello! My (now) fiance proposed to me on Sunday, which of course I'm very happy about, but now he's telling people it's going to be a long time before we get married.
While I understand that we're young (24 and 26) and we've only been together 6 months I feel like it's kind of mean to say that. We both seem to have agreed on 2 years, but in all honestly I'd like to plan it for about a year out maybe a year and a half. I feel like 2 years is too long and leaves too much room for a potential break up while it's easy.
Am I overthinking it? Doesn't it kind of sound like he doesn't want to marry me when he says that? I tried to tell him to just tell people to say we'll do it when I graduate from college (in about a ...
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No commitment
Posted Sunday October 21 2018, 10:45 pm
I’m a 35 year old woman... I’m dating a guy that’s 54 we’ve been dating for 8 months... and we’re still not in a relationship, before me he was in a 12 yr relationship... and he tells me he does not wanna rush, but I’m not getting any younger and I want to be in a committed relationship... so my question is do u think 8 months is too long?
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Why would a man in a relationship sleeps with another woman?
Posted Sunday October 21 2018, 8:27 pm
Help me out here guys!
He says he’s happy in a relationship with his girlfriend and a kid with her but yet he and I went out for a half a year and slept together. But we split up and it does hurt a lot until to this day because we fell in love and loved each other and I myself having hard to get over him and he seems to be quite over me now after a year. We do still catch up at least once a week.
However, when we met up the other day for a coffee he told me he loves her otherwise he wouldn’t be with her. He says he’s done a favour splitting up with me and choosing her and their kid because it would have given me a massive headache for sure that’s what he said.
The thing is I don’t thi...
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