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Why do people think anxiety is cute and romantic


Posted Saturday June 18 2016, 7:41 pm

As someone who has anxiety, it's not! It's not cute and romantic to avoid things because of irrational fears, to not be able to relax your body, and for your body to always be shaking. Or taking hours to fall asleep to wake up at 3 am having a panic attack, hallucinating. It's not aesthetic to be doing a project in science class that involves heart rate and find out your pulse beats 40 above average even though you eat right, exercise and are generally a healthy person and people being like "???" And not wanting to explain. And being worried about everything, from your friends leaving you even though that's unreasonable because your friends are great and have stood by you through everything but you're afraid if you express your f...

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How can i get over my eating anxiety?


Posted Saturday June 18 2016, 2:21 pm

Hey. I think I have an eating problem. I won't eat in front of other people and when I do, I feel fat and I feel like a pig. It's gotten so bad that I won't even eat properly in school, and I was against a wall with my bf the other day, and it was awkward because my stomach growled so loud. :(. Also, when I do eat, I eat A LOT. Like I'm not even joking. My stomach has shrank, and I'm seeing a counsellor, but I still won't eat in front of others. It's gotten to the point where I will hide in my room and eat junk foods like cookies and Twixes and stuff. Also, it's really embarrassing in school when my stomach growls in class and everyone like laughs at me. I also feel sick when I eat and my bf of 3 months hasn't yet seen me eat and I'm always...

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Why do people want to move to the city so badly


Posted Saturday June 18 2016, 6:17 am

12 year old female. I live in the suburbs, but it's like right outside NYC. I've been to the city many times before. I haven't had much experience with rural areas but the more rural places I have been are so much better! There isn't any intensely loud noises from traffic, you can see the stars at night unlike here where the city's building lights and advertisements outshine them so you can only see the moon, planes and a few stars, there's animals other than squirrels, dogs, cats, pigeons and ducks, lots of diffirent plants, and trees, along with a lot of cool geographical features like rivers, lakes, hills. Yet people who live in rural areas want to go to the city and complain about where they are living. Why?

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hemorrhoids


Posted Saturday June 18 2016, 2:18 am

I am 13 years old and I would like to know if I have hemorrhoids I have no bleeding or growing no infections it looks like but I want to know when the symptoms start to kick in I'm really worried and haven't told anyone yet

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Drumming


Posted Friday June 17 2016, 10:36 pm

Stage name

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Should I transfer colleges?


Posted Friday June 17 2016, 12:04 pm

I've only been at my current college one semester. I moved here because the school looked beautiful and it was in a city that I thought would have lots of job opportunities. I still think my school is very pretty and also has yummy restaurants on campus, lots of fun places off campus, and up to date technology but I'm having quite a few other issues here.

1. I can't find a decent job here. I have a great resume and previous experience, but still barely anybody is hiring and the jobs get snapped up so fast or won't work with my school schedule.

2. My campus is noisy and I can't concentrate on studying. The school is doing construction that won't end until 2018 and it's so loud I even have trouble sleeping and do...

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Anger issues with my family peaking


Posted Friday June 17 2016, 10:32 am

I am 20 from and currently pursuing my Engineering. I have 2 more years to complete Masters so i live off my parents' money. My Parents especially dad are what you say "perfectionist". Whatever i have done since child, i was subjected to what can be said as "constructive criticism". While i accept fully any type of criticism and learn from my mistakes, criticizing every decision i have ever taken, rather practically everything i have ever done pissed me of since i was a kid. I ended up turning a people pleaser. I used to get angry but i somehow suppressed it. Now after so many years i find myself difficult to carry it further. It is like i have reached a peak. In recent times i find myself exploding with anger, taking ev...

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i want to know whether you loose you virginity if you have anal sax


Posted Friday June 17 2016, 4:32 am

I am a virgin and my boyfriend ask me to have anal sex with him because I am not ready for sex,so I need to know whether I can loose my virginity while having anal sex or not?? I need advice


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Ignorant friend.


Posted Friday June 17 2016, 2:54 am

15, female.

One of my close friends are acting like they're mad at me or something. For the past few weeks we would talk almost every night through texts, we've been friends for about 2 years.

The thing that really bothers me about this is now she is not talking to me like at all. I said hey and she replied "what" and I just said that I wanted to talk to her and she just didn't reply. So, because I was being dramatic and it was in the moment, I blocked her because she does this a lot. We'd talk and be great friends and then she just ignores me as if I am annoying her.
She's done this with a lot of our other friends too, I'd see that they'd be really good friends and then she'd start b****ing ...

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Best friend disregarding my feelings - boy drama


Posted Friday June 17 2016, 2:12 am

Female, 14

WARNING: CRINGE TEENAGE BOY DRAMA

Hey, so I guess I am just writing this, seeking clarification.
So, I used to fancy this guy at my school for about a year and a half, he didn't know though. That was last year, and I got over him. Earlier this year, he began to fancy me, and he asked me out on a date. The thing was, I got over him for a reason, which was that all he seems to want is a girlfriend, so I was quite relluctant to say yes, but I said yes for one date, because I thought 'why not', that reason, and also that my friends had made it out like I did fancy him, so I felt like I had to say yes, which I know that I shouldn't feel forced to say yes to that sort of thing. Anyway, so I went o...

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Just a fact I'd like to know


Posted Thursday June 16 2016, 3:49 pm

On The X Factor UK, I know that the public votes for which category the judges get. Before that, the decision was made by the producer, but how did the producers decide. For example Louis was on the show for 11 years and he got the groups for 6 of those years (Not continously more like every two years. Did they use a randomizer or did they just pick the categories off the top of their head?

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YES, NO, MAYBE SO


Posted Thursday June 16 2016, 1:48 pm

people tend to think im a teen still in high school, but im a grown adult woman and well the city bus driver is sexxi as hell....and today he did a 360 degree turn to look me directly in my eyes just smiling his azz off and he was like "hey little lady"....I said hi, smiled and sat down...and as I got off the bus he looked at me again and told me to have a nice day.....should I tell him how old I really am, I do like him.... but I have vowed to never approach a man again...cuz things didn't turn out the way I had hoped the last time I did that.......I was almost on an episode of cheaters..lol

today he was just smiling with his head down when he seen me....should I ask him why does he act all giddy around me? he looks to be about 36 yrs old

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This is sooooo embarrassing.


Posted Thursday June 16 2016, 12:27 pm

Plz don't judge. I am a 14yr old fem with a basically impossible to control sex drive. I want to know how to get like a vibrator and lube without being embarrassed. I don't want to look in my parents room cos she knows ALL and I just want one of my own cos its kinda unhygienic and im not even sure she has one and also what's a dildo? Help greatly appreciated.


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What is wrong with me?


Posted Thursday June 16 2016, 11:29 am

Omg I can't believe I'm writing this but help would be appreciated. I am 14, and I hate my body. My breasts are tiny, my thighs are fat, and I have started to develop spots on my you know... Area. I wash my body at least twice a day and bathe every day. It's quite painful and I'm worried my bf will react bad if he sees. I don't want to go to the doctors because I'm so insecure about my body, and my crippling social anxiety that surrounds my body means that I hate PE at school and I can't go swimming without being self conscious. A lot of help is needed. Thanks.

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Twin is lonely-how can I help?


Posted Thursday June 16 2016, 7:44 am

I'm 20/f and I'm worried about my twin sister.

She has had a really bad year in terms of losing different jobs for different reasons and also she doesn't seem to be able to make and keep up with friends.
We're turning 21 next week and having a meal out . I've invited mu friends from uni and the one friend my twin has can not come because it's too late for her to get home. So she won't have any friends there.
We're both pretty shy but I've learnt to come out of my shell since being at uni. She has also lived away from home at a different uni and has struggled to make any friends.
I think it's because when we were growing up I was always the one who made friends with people and she'd just tag along.
...

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Idk what to do I'm scared I might have a panic/asthma attack


Posted Thursday June 16 2016, 3:14 am

Hi, I'm a 14 year old and I want to give my bf a hand job. I've never did anything like that before, and I'm scared I might have a panic/asthma attack if I do because I have never done anything before. He says when I'm ready, but we both know he wants me to. Any suggestions? Oh, a bit of background: I'm 14, he is 13, but I'm only 3 months older than him and we have had phone sex and have been making out and we have been together for over 3 months now. Also, I have like rubbed the front of his pants and boxers and he has came from that but he wants skin to skin contact. From Europe.

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boyfriend lied to me.


Posted Thursday June 16 2016, 2:27 am

My boyfriend lied to me about this girl. I found that he poked her on facebook and when i confronted him about it- he told me he did it on purpose to see if i was viewing his activity log. I Told him that was childish and that he could have just asked me flat out- but after that i let it go and everything was fine. Then i found him searching her on his phone once and he told me he doesn't even know her and that he just wanted to show his friend someting-- so i let that go too. Then we got into an argument and went a whole day without talking and i see that he sent her a friend request both on instagram and facebook- and when i confronted him and asked him why he did that he said it was normal and i said if you dont know her then how is tha...

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what does this bulge mean?


Posted Thursday June 16 2016, 12:13 am

My bf came over my house and we layer on my bed with a lil space between us I sat up and noticed a huge bulge in his pants and his my face he didn't seem to notice. What does that mean though?


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How Can I Figure Out What I'm Allergic To (FOOD)


Posted Wednesday June 15 2016, 10:53 pm

I have a food allergy but I am not sure what to. It is either Avocado or Shell Fish or maybe even both. I love Sushi and have ate it for decades. I usually have AYCE and sample from an eclectic menu.

It never used to affect me at all before. I ate Sushi, loved it and went about my business. However, the last 5 times I ate it at different places I wound up with severe cramps, nausea and the need for a bathroom with to put it mildly insufferable runs and embarrassment as I tried to get home from these places.

I know that some places use oyster or other sauces in cooking and I cut out all deep fried stuff and it happened still 50%of the time and even if I cut crab and shell fish out or Avocado to test.

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My friend has a crush on me, I don't know what to do about a thing he did.


Posted Wednesday June 15 2016, 10:28 pm

I have this friend who told me yesterday that he has feelings for me and he asked me if I wanted to go on a date with him some time. We've been close friends for about 4 years now, but I'm not interested in him at all like that. I told him I'm not interested, sorry,but don't worry this doesn't have to affect our friendship at all. And I genuinely mean that, he's my friend and I'm more than capable of not being awkward just because he has a little crush.

The thing is him telling me this made me think of something that happened a few months ago. A bunch of friends and I went out one night, he was there, and I got pretty drunk, like to the point where when we got back to another friend's house, where we were staying that night, ...

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