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i want to know whether you loose you virginity if you have anal sax
I am a virgin and my boyfriend ask me to have anal sex with him because I am not ready for sex,so I need to know whether I can loose my virginity while having anal sex or not?? I need advice
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If you aren't ready for sex you are not ready for analysis sex either! Your virginity is defined by you and no one else, however if you don't feel ready for intercourse then I don't recommend participating in any sexual activities. Anal sex is known to be painful and as a woman (22) who enjoys (yes, I said enjoy) it is usually painful or uncomfortable for a few minutes EVERY time...and it can cause bowel incontinence (or Anal leakage) please respect yourself and only have sex if and when YOU feel ready....if he won't wait, he doesn't really love you. Please think about what YOU want and Anal sex is probably not the first thing in mind. If your first sexual experience is Anal and your boyfriend is also inexperienced it is not likely to be a positive experience in my opinion. Good luck sweetie, and remember it's what YOU want and when YOU want it..I promise your future self will thank you. I hope this was of some help.
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Virginity or being a virgin is today defined as the first penis to vagina penetration. Virginity no longer is defined by whether you have or do not have an intact Hymen. In today's active women her Hymen could detach through many of the activities a young woman participates in.
Since anal sex has nothing to do with vaginal penetration you would still be considered a virgin. I will caution you that anal sex can be very painful if you are not properly prepared for it. Anal sex is not like regular vaginal sex where he just tries to put his penis in your anus.
I would suggest you both read up on how to have anal sex. You can goggle it on the web. One very important thing about anal sex when and if you allow him. MAKE SURE HE WEARS A CONDOM. The CONDOM is for his protection more than yours as there are many bacteria in the anal canal that are harmful. Without a condom he could get a serious urinary infection.
You may also find it more comfortable to give yourself or have him give you an enema before having anal sex. A full bowel will make anal sex uncomfortable for you.
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