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I got my period 7 monthes ago but im still getting discharge... does it ever stop!

nOpE! iM sORRy hUn!!!!!

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hey well i got my period in the middle of march (it was my first one) and i still haven't got another one! is there anythin wrong with me? i know it usually takes a while, but does it take this long? plz help

just like everyone else said, yOu Are FINe! :) dont worry about anything because your body is still trying to pRoCeSS! you wont have a StAbLe ScHeDuLE for your period for a few months!

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There is this guy "friend" of mine that I met last year. After a while we were fully aquainted, we started hanging out. I really think he likes me because he has always treated me with respect and kindness. I went to his house the other day, and we started "fooling around". Now he wants to have sex, not as partners, but as friends. He said that this is not considered being a slut or anything because we are friends. Is this true? I really like him. I just got over a really bad situation with the last person I was with. Please help me.



*~!Ayla!~* ( I am only 13, and I'm a girl )

i have a friend that is a guy that always talks about doing the same thing. i am scared at the thought. ok sorry.. i know you dont want to know this, but i think it is a bad idea. at least wait a while or until you love each other, if you ever will. even though you really like him, he might not like you, and might be using you. also, you are 13 and its not a very good idea because there are more consequences to you then there are to your guy friend. im sorry im not very supportive. good luck in your decision. :)

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Most of the time my hair is frizzy and not straight. I've tried a lot of methods and my hair is still going to be frizzy. what is the best way to straighten hair?

maybe ask whoever cuts your hair about what you should do =) they know best. as for now try to blow dry your hair down while brushing. good luck!

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Has anyone tried Dream Matte Mousse? Does it work good? Thanks!

dream matte mousse feels really good on your skin and blends really well without leaving powderish looking stuff on your face! it works amazing. =)

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I was wondering if anybody knew how to get very wavy curls that look natural? Exactly like the ones that Mischa Barton always has. Any help is greatly appreciated..oh and no rude comments, please!

i have almost the exact same problem!!! what you can do is when you wash your hair or take a shower and wash your hair you braid your hair afterwards (wash your hair before you go to bed) or you can braid and wet your hair, then sleep on it. in the morning you will have beautiful waves/curls! =) lots of love!

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i havnt started my period yet and i'm a very short 13 year old so how do i know that i didnt stop growing?

this question made me smile because i thought the exact same thing when i was 13 years old!!! then i got mine and i wanted it to go away! and i dont think growth has to do anything with your peroids! you might not stop growing until you are 16-18! so dont worry about it! enjoy life before your period (lol sorry if this scares you, you'll still enjoy it after too!) and have fun!!

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Okay, sorry this is going to sound really stupid and like im really rude and stuff, but i know im not skinny and im kinda fat..i weigh 128 pounds and im 5'5..but in PE we weighed ourselves and thats what it said (then i went to the doctor and it was the same weight there too..so i know its right) my friend in PE was like the same as me..but she likes to feel better about herself and shes telling everyone i weigh like 140..i guess thats not that bad..but still, i dont want everyone to think im even more fat then i already am. She told one of my friends (lets call her F) that and F WONT believe me at all. Then i told one of my other friends (lets call her X) what i really weigh and she told F. But F was like no she doesnt, she weighs 140. uugh its just really annoying that she won't believe me. I guess i don't really care that much..i don't even like people knowing how much i weigh. But yeah. What should i do to get her to believe me and everyone to just shut up about it? Should i just ignore it?
Thanks for any help..

i think you should just ignore it!! and even if they do think you weight 140 they will be shocked to see someone weigh that much look so great!! make it look like you love your body the way it is even though you only 128 pounds! act like you dont care and then see what they think about you! sorry i didnt help much, but you will be FINE!!! lots of love!

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if i ride my bike for around 10-15 minutes each day.. how much wieght will i lose in a week and will it help me flatten my stomach a bit ?

im sorry that this probably isnt the answer that you are expecting, but you will probably not lose much weight unless you are REALLY working, and by this i mean extremely feeling it. you would lose more weight and feel better if you ran instead. the bike wheels make it harder for your body to work because they do 1/2 the work for you!! when your running it is just you and you are doing all of the work! also eat healthy. it wont help if you run to lose weight and then gain it when you get home!!!
good luck! love natalie

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i absolutely ♥ my bf. but lately weve been growing apart. what can i do to get the 'spark' back into our relationship?

i think you should have a really long heart to heart conversation if you know what i mean. like, not a conversation you normally have, even if you normally have amazing conversations. i know someone said to have sex but i really dont think you should do that. until you are absolutely sure and ready, sometimes sex makes things worse and makes people grow apart. anyways, like i was saying before tell your thoughts about him that would make him feel good about himself, thoughts that remind him how much you love him. besides talking to him, do more stuff with him alone. =)
good luck!
love, natalie

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