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My name is Kadi, and I've been through alot so i think i'd be good at helping people with Advice. I live in Delaware, and yeah. I've gone through alot like i said and I'm pretty smart with computers. I'm really into music so yeah... If you want to know more just look at my contact information on the side♥

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i really want a makeover.. my style has basically been the same since like 6th or 7th grade. (im a freshman right now) i have dark brown hair thats shoulder length, i basically wear coverup, eyeshadow, and mascara (sumtimes eyeliner) for my makeup, and usually i just wear jeans and a fitted shirt or comfy clothes like on the weekends. i don't want to dye my hair because i like my color and so does everyone else. and i usually straighten it if i wear it down otherwise i just leave it in a ponytail. what are some different things i could do with my hair and makeup and what can i do to like change my clothing style?? (nothing dressy though.) sorry this was so long!

If you want a makeover.
GO DRASTIC.
get a haircut like mine:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v410/glitterglitz/5a132698.jpg

Dress like this:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v410/glitterglitz/39376593.jpg

and do your makeup like this:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v410/glitterglitz/5a7feada.jpg
or
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v410/glitterglitz/ea4fdad3.jpg

lolzzz just a suggestion!

IDK if you want to be just like me though.
or be like that.
but um okay haha!

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I want to be something for halloween that NO one here can ever think of. I am 13/f and I want to kinda stand out from the rest of the cround. Like I want to dress up as someone for EX the Dukes of Hazzard. i am too fat to be Daisy. So What? I know its early but just wanted some ideas! Thanks!

lolz you should be richard simmons!

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what websites can you go to to design your own FREE website i rate 5's

www.freewebs.com
www.geocities.com
kbye.

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whats a good kind of perfume that smells really good.. like a girly type of perfume that will last through the day.. i want a perfume that i can buy at the mall thats pretty cheap

adidas moves for her.
it smells so good
and its not expensive at all

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ok i was wondering does anyone know of any other picture hosting sites other than photobucket that has at least 1500 megabites or whatever of bandwith?

http://imagecloset.com/

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I have curly & frizzy hair; I use a straightening iron to smooth out the frizz but it still seems a tad frizzy. Is there a smoothing product anyone can suggest that can be used with a straightening iron? Or something after that I can use to smooth it out?

you can use garnier fructis sleek and shine serum. just go to your grocery store and go to the shampoo isle they should have it.

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what are some cute DIY things to do with a size small band t-shirt from hot topic?

cut the t-shirt in half on just the sides and lace it up together with string to make a pulled in effect.

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wen you apply eyeliner on the bottom, are you supposed to put it like on the area right above your lower eyelashes or under them. cuz whenever i tried to get it under them it looks like the eyeliner isn't even near my eye. and for the top, how do you get it so that it doesnt look like there is a space between the eyeliner and your lashes??

Well you can do both. you can put it in the inside of your eye so its lining your eye, hence the name, "Eye LINER" and to get it to look like theres not a line go into the mirror real close and draw a line right at the lash line and it should look fine. just make sure you apply some eyeliner near the tear ducts on the upper lid so it's fully lined.

-Kadi xx

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im so sad, upset right now and depressed
can any one give me songs so i can listen to that are about love etc
i like techno pop rock/punk and r & b

I'm sorry you're sad :(

But these will make you into the mood of sad.

Last one is an instrumental it makes me hella depressed.

http://a425.v8384d.c8384.g.vm.akamaistream.net/7/426/8384/3b858b51/mtvrdstr.download.akamai.com/8512/wmp/0/26161/29940_1_3_05.asf

or

http://students.sabanciuniv.edu/~utkuturgay/ADream.mp3

Listen listen listen listen LISTEN.

Kay :)

-Kadi xx

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what are some good sad songs and artists to listen. kinds that you want to listen to when your really down and just need a good cry.

The end of a fraud By Armor for sleep.
Letter from the lost days by Akira Yamaoka
The Requiem for a Dream theme(Must download MUST)
Untiled By Simple Plan
Existentialism On Prom Night By Straylight Run
Love Will Tear Us Apart By Fall Out Boy
Collide by Howie Day
I miss you by Blink 182
Some Say by Sum 41

Omg those are all good sad songs.
Seriously, i have a sulking playlist on winamp lol.

Hope i Helped, and I HIGHLY reccomend you download those :)

-Kadi xx

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i have 3 colors for my room picked out
Purple
Blue
Lime green

what are some cute ways to paint my walls..i have 4 walls in my room. thanks

14/girl

You could do Stripes on all your walls, or each wall a different color, or horizontal stripes, there are endless posibilities. Or you could paint all your walls one solid colors, say purple, and get a stencil and stencil different things on your walls with the blue and Lime Green paint :) Hope i gave you some ideas.

-Kadi xx

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whats probobly the bst shampoo to make hair grow faster and smell pretty?

well theres this one shampoo called garnier fructis and it makes your hair stronger so it grows longer and doesnt break, so that may do it...but it doesnt really have a smell.

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Okay well i wanna srighten my hair but i cant seem to find a srightener that works. Can anyone recommend any good ones that work on thick hair.
less than $69.99 would be great. Will rate 5's for fast good answers that work.

They have ones at Bed Bath and beyond for like 30 bucks, and the best one there is Maxiglide but thats 79.99 so whatever. They also have really good ones at like 40 bucks on www.conair.com Conair is really really good, thats the one i use :) hmm so okay i hope i helped.

-kadix3

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I want to make dinner for my boyfriend. I'm an ok cook but not really great or anything. Does anyone have any ideas of a nice meal I could cook that would be pretty easy to do? I'm not looking to make frozen pizza or anything, I really want to do this right.

theres this easy dish i make all the time. It's realllllly good. Buy one of those pre-marinated pork lions(omg theyre so tender and juicy), they have like italian seasonings, terriaki, lemon..etc. Put it in the oven at 350 for 30-45 Minutes, and you have a really tender juicy pork loin..you could make pasta and a salad or something with it. He'd totally b e impressed

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For along time now I have had scary thoughts. Thoughts that someone is going to kill me in my sleep. I always have thoughts of my sister or family member doing this. I also have thoughts of killing myself, I even go through the cabinets and pour some pills into ziploc bags and hide them in my room just in case I feel the need to overdose. Sometimes I get in crazy moods and can't control them and I am afraid I am going to do something I know I normally wouldn't do. I am like a different person when I am depressed and in a different mood. It's like I have a split personality or something. I don't know what is wrong with me, and I have this urge to always pull my eyebrows out. It feels so good to feel the hair slip from my skin. I get into a trance and can't stop pulling, afterwards I feel so guilty but while I am doing i its all I am focused on. Each hair I feel represents a problem in my life. And when they come out it feels for a moment I am free of worries. Is it strange to feel this way, to love to feel pain?

No it's not strange to feel this way, You're probably feeling what you feel on the inside is making sense on the outside. This may not have anything to do with you as a person. It could be a mental illness or something like I have... I know exactly how you feel, i went through it. I just went to talk to someone and i guess it helped..Maybe you should go and talk to someone, she could help you think in positinve ways, or give you medication to help calm yourself. It's not the worst thing in the world to take medication or talk to someone, it's just taking your thoughts, and trying to make them so you're not paranoid or anything. I've been through it all hun and i think that if you do whatever feels right for the better you should do it soon because things will just get worse if you sit around and keep doing the things you're doing... Hope i helped.
-kadi x3

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i was just wondering what the website or where do you go to download the program or whatever to go on more than one sn (aim) at a time? thanks in advance.

Go to My Aim.
Then go to Manage Linked Screennames.
Then go to Add Screename.
Put in the information.
Sign off.
Sign on.
Wala.
That wasnt so hard now was it?
-Kadi x3

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Today I got a Ipod Mini. I installed all the software - and it all works. But when I plug in my ipod to put music on it, the computer doesn't recognize it or anything. How do I get the computer to recognize it?

theres this thing on windows media player, that recognizes any software..maybe you should try it, it's called playforsure.

http://www.playsforsure.com/

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Okay, so I made this video on windows movie maker and I saved it in my documents under my videos. I was wondering if there was any website that I could upload an wmv file onto so I can get the code and put it on my myspace. If there is, and you have an answer, I will rate 5s. Plz n thanks.

www.angelfire.com
make an account and upload it and then get the link for it like www.name.username.com/moviehere.mpg or whatever it is lol

putfile.com never works...
it just..gives a link and no movie.

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omg..everytime i ask this question, people are like i dont get it..it's so easy...okay let me explain more...i have a windows XP so sometimes when im on my screenname i leave an away message!(if u dont get that than stop reading this) anyways so i leave an away message and switch users however when i go to check my away message and its a has been a long period of time the computer some how returned me from away and like some how signed me on...so i have all these conversations of people who are like hello are you there.?....what should i do

ill rate high for a good answer that works..and if you dont get it dont bother

when you go back to your computer after a long period of time is it at the welcome screen?
well if you dont have one or whatever.....check the settings of your screen saver, because that sometimes has something to do with it...

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I have a problem with my boyfriend touching me 'down there.' We have been going out for 3 years now, we have had sex and all and I am still afraid to let him touch me down there or even see me down there. But I have a very good reason, I was molested at the age 5-6 years old, I have told my boyfriend this because he has asked me numerous times if that was the reason so I finally gave in and told him the truth. Now he knows, but he still tries to touch me there even though I have told him it makes me uncomfortable and I am not ready for that yet. I have always been shy about it, when he tries to touch me there it turns me off and it brings back memories of being molested. My question is how can I overcome this? And why does my boyfriend keep trying to go down there even when he knows, and when he does I push his hand away and he sort of seems mad and doesn't get it but sometimes he acts like he does get it, so I am not sure why he keeps doing this?

Well, I know it's hard trying to "do stuff" With your boyfriend after that kind of thing. He keeps doing it because well...He's a guy...and guys have urges. He's probly not doing it to make you feel uncomfortable though, so don't think that for him. Just remember that your boyfriend isnt the creep that molested you when you were 5, and it's a different circumstance. You're not being forced to do anything, so just remember that. Try, I know it's hard, to put that stuff a little farter in the past and realize that the chances of being molested are slim. Just take what i said and try to mold it into an answer or an explination of your problem, things will work out...it just depends on what you take from all these answers and things WILL work out soon enough, believe me, they have their ways..

-Kadi x3

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