Member Since: January 22, 2005
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Last Update: January 23, 2005
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There is this guy who i've known for about 2 years now. He's really nice. I talk to him every once in a while on the internet and last year we had assigned seats at lunch next to each other every day for 4 months. We, this year, are in 4 classes together. He is the kind of guy who likes to make people laugh, but he's not a class clown. He's always real nice to me and he and i talk sometimes.. and whenever he cracks a joke or something he looks directly at me to see if i'm smiling or not. I thought at the beginning of the year that he liked me and i liked him a little so i asked him to the dance and he never gave me an answer. Does he like me and what should I do about it? 13/F/7th grade (link)
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don't worry your just in 7th grade. He might like you but you never can tell with those guys ;-) but anyway if he really likes you he'll come around sometime so dont worry and jus wait hope i helped
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my friend kayla has all these cuts on her arm. i/m afraid to ask her what their from but they look like she cut herself. im really afraid that it is and i almost told a teacher but im not sure what should i do? (link)
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go tell the counselor he/she will help more because by law the teachers have to tell the couselor anyways so its best to talk to her yourself instead of your teacher. good luck hope i helped
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A bunch of my friends cut themselves..but for no reason..they just do it because they want attention and they want people to feel sorry for them. They always talk about how depressed they are and how much life sucks for them, and it's not true at all. Because one friend started to cut herself, the other friend started too as well, and now another one is on the verge of cutting herself. They all do it for attention and I'm positive of that, and they drive everyone crazy. I'd like to just not be friends with them anymore but I don't want to see them get hurt, and they won't listen to anyone when theyre told to stop. What should I do to make them realize how stupid they're being without actually giving them the attention that they're cutting themselves for? If they're given the attention they're cutitng themselves for, then they'll just do it again. If we all just ignore them, they could seriously hurt themselves.. please help. Thanks. (link)
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a lot of people cut themselves for attention but their not getting the attention they need. Don't take it apon yourself to stop them tell the counselor and tell him/her not to say who told. Then they'll get the attention they want ;-) hope i helped
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i've been kinda cutting myself...it was kinda stupid at first but now it's serious. my life is kinda like crap rite now. grades, family, friends, and love...all that jazz. sometimes i feel like i just randomly wann cutt myself. i hate it. i know there is other ways to work it put but i don't wanna talk to my family and i've already talked to my friends. please help me and don't just pick on or make fun of me...really answer this question.
signed,
confused and lost (link)
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hey cutting isn't the answer like i told somebody else find a different solution to your pain. Find something that comforts you but helps relieve your pain. So maybe you can cut something else because cutting urself is gonna make you regret it sooner or later.
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for like a week now. and the other day he asked me if i wanted sex.
we r madly in love, but im not sure if its the right time in the relationship?
what should i do?
luv nicki xxxxx (link)
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def. not its only the week. he propably just wants the sex a couple times then break up ina couple weeks or so its not worth wasting it on a player.
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Since September, I have been friends with a girl, we are both 13. I really like her but I am very worried about her. Before she came to our school, her Step-Father, she hasn't seen her biological father in 10 years, threw her, her Mother and her sister out of their house and they had to move back here.
Since then, she has been cutting her wrists and talking about how she wants to kill herself. Recently, she has started taking paracetemol everyday because she says that she gets headaches and feels ill if she doesn't have any. She used to smoke and I know she still has cigarettes at her home in case she needs them, I'm worried she might start again.
She hates her Mother and yesterday she told me that her Mother is moving to another city and leaving her and her sister, who is 14, behind. I can't tell anyone because if I do, my friend will be put in care and she will never forgive me. No one else knows about all this except me and I am so worried about her.
I don't know what I can do to help her, I am going through a difficult situation myself and I'm so wrapped with it that I don't know how to cope with my friend as well. I have tried talking to her and telling her to get help but she wont and there is no way I can make her. I don't know what to do, I can't tell anyone and she wont get help. I'm so scared that one day she really will kill herself, she's threatened to so many times. What should I do? (link)
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definately tell someone. because if she actually kills herself one day you are going to feel so guilty thinking she woulda have lived if i would have told someone. She needs serious help and you are the only one who can help her right now. so please tell somebody no matter what because if she told you she must want help so tell a counselor/teacher or some ADULT that ur close to before she does something she's going to regret.
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Ok there is this girl I really like, and she has brought up the subject that she really likes me too, but im not a hundred percent sure that she does,is there any ways that i could find out if she really does ? (link)
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sry but no. the only way is to ask her yourself. even if you try she is going to get suspicious about all these peopla asking her. so just go for it! plus, rejection isn't that bad, u get over it and think well theres other girls out there.
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First thing I have to say.. is I am really goin thru a tough time right now so please don't be mean anwsering this question because I am serious about this... Alright... I had like a breakdown today...and cut my wrists a little bit not alot but some..I really can not stop thinking about suicide and I don't know what to do.. I want help so it doesn't go to far... but I'm afraid if I ask people will just think I am doing it for attention and I'm not but I can't take this anymore... I don't know what to do.. Please help me and fast... I'll rate you.. I just want to be happy again like I was when I was little... Ok thanks and remember please don't be mean!! (link)
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hey take it from someone who has had plenty friends cut theirselves and or thought about suicide. They put me in the position of what should they should do. But all i could say was not to anyting your going to regret. And plz do not commit suicide. It scares everyone and even though you might not believe it but people really do care about you. So don't forget the poeple who love you and take ur life away from THEM. ;) hope i helped
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This is a serious question, so please don't joke about it. I know it's long..but if you read it, I'll really appreciate a decent answer. My friend and are both 13 and female. Yesterday at lunch my friend wasn't eating. She usually doesn't eat lunch, but I hadn't really caught on until now. I asked her why she wasn't eating and just said "I don't know". I asked her when she had last eaten a full meal and she said it was about a week ago! Only a couple of her close friends know this, but I was the most recent one to find out. Why aren't her friends doing anything about it? I've been thinking about it all yesterday and today. I had a long chat with her online last night about it and she answered some questions that I asked. One: I asked her (again) why she hadn't eaten in the last week. She told me it was a way to relieve "stress". She also said she thought of doing this, since it is better than cutting herself. Her parents are divorced so she says to one parent that she eats at the other house and vice-versa. Basically our whole lunch table knows this about her, so one of my friends buys her a snack everyday. We try to make her eat it, but she just turns her head and shuts her mouth. She said that she won't let it go that far. I told her that this is going to become a bad habit for her and she needs to start going back to her regular eating before it gets worse. I never would have expected this to happen to her. She's not fat (and she doesn't think she's fat either), she's NEVER sad (always happy and hyper), I just don't know. I know I have to tell someone about this. But I didn't think I would ever be in a situation like this. It scares me. She told me not to tell her parents or anyone else. I want to tell so badly..but at the same time, I just want to let it go! If I tell, I'm so scared I will lose her as a friend. I need someone to help my friend and me. Please. (link)
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Sorry to tell you this but shes your frined you can't let her do this to herself. I know it will not be easy but she really needs help right now if she wants to admit it or not. She's having a tough time getting through life right now and some good friends. So be a good friend to her and if yopu decide to tell someone offer to go with her for moral support. Just be really supportive to her and she'll come around.
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